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You Are Good

Blue Valentine w. Esmé Weijun Wang

You Are Good

Sarah Marshall + Alex Steed

Film History, Film Reviews, Relationships, Society & Culture, Tv & Film

4.82.7K Ratings

🗓️ 5 May 2021

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

We unpack the big feelings that fuel Blue Valentine—which is not Blue Velvet (though it is at once similarly and differently heavy)—with Esmé Weijun Wang. You can find Esmé on Twitter (https://twitter.com/esmewang) and Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/esmewwang). You can find Esmé online here (https://linktr.ee/esmewang)! We made a playlist to accompany this episode! (https://open.spotify.com/playlist/69mdWH1m78ahg3QKTvFVEb?si=csOUfanSSI6FtP0rmg2Q5A) It's comprised of songs that come to mind when we all think about this movie. Why Are Dads (https://www.podpage.com/why-are-dads/) is a show in which hosts Sarah Marshall and Alex Steed attempt to understand what the hell it means to be the grown children of dads and other dad-like figures. And, as they do with all difficult subject matter, they do so by looking through a pop culture lens. You can find us on Twitter (https://twitter.com/whyaredads), Instagram (https://instagram.com/whyaredads) and Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/whyaredads). You can find producer and music director Carolyn Kendrick's music here. (fanlink.to/ctuc) She's also on Twitter (https://twitter.com/carekendrick). Fresh Lesh (https://www.freshlesh.com/) produces the beats for our episodes. Abigail Swartz of Gray Day Studio (https://www.graydaystudio.com/) designed our logo!

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0:00.0

It's me Alex. I'm one of the co-hosts of Why Your Dads. Thank you so much for being here.

0:10.0

We'll be joined by Sarah in our wonderful guest as Mae Wang. Not long from now, but I just wanted

0:15.6

to give you a quick intro to let you know what's going on. Sarah writes, you know, she's not going

0:19.8

to be in this introduction because she's writing. She's getting the ideas out and she's putting

0:24.1

them down on the pitch, which is great news. So I am here just to let you know that Why Your Dads

0:30.4

is a show where we watch movies and we talk about dads, but really it's an excuse to talk about

0:36.6

feelings and gender and masculinity and trauma and all sorts of other things that we do in a relatively

0:46.3

lighthearted and welcoming way. We thought if we told you straight up, we're going to have a show

0:53.2

and we're going to talk about how much it hurt growing up sometimes and how much it hurts

0:58.9

being a grown up sometimes. You wouldn't listen. Would you listen? No, but we figured if we hit it

1:05.9

in this like candy shell, you'd come right along and here you are. We talked about Blue Valentine,

1:12.8

which is a movie I had not seen because everyone told me it was very sad and it is very sad.

1:20.8

But it was also a really lovely journey. I was glad to go on it with Sarah and Esme.

1:27.6

Esme, if you don't know, is an author? She's the author of The Border of Paradise and the

1:32.8

collected schizophrenia. It was a delight to have her. Evidently, she and you'll hear about this

1:38.4

in the episode. She wanted to talk about Blue Valentine. We didn't put her up to this and we're

1:44.5

all the better for it, I would say. If you've been in a difficult relationship, this might be

1:49.3

a big one for you to listen to. We talk a lot about that sort of thing. But in all, I think we had

1:54.7

a delightful and a glorious time. Now, Wire Dads is made possible with support by NAC Factory,

2:01.6

which is a commercial content and video production company. It's based in Portland, Maine,

2:06.4

but it works all throughout these United States. It wants to work with you to make some really

2:11.2

lovely and compelling video for whatever your project is. So get in touch with the folks at NAC Factory

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