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Deeply Well with Devi Brown

Black Single Mother with Jamilah Lemieux

Deeply Well with Devi Brown

The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts

Health & Fitness

4.9 • 1.4K Ratings

🗓️ 4 June 2026

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

This episode is the kind of conversation that makes you exhale. Jamilah Lemieux joins the show to talk about her book, Black Single Mother - the title alone has had the internet buzzing around the topic.  Lemieux breaks down how single motherhood is a spectrum, not a stereotype, and how the current wave of public contempt is often about control, to place labels and struggle upon. 

If you’re dating as a single mom, her advice is practical and protective: be intentional, don’t rush introductions, and “listen to what they say. Believe what they say.” They also name how respectability politics and patriarchy shape shame in Black families, and why mothers deserve full lives: “Don’t write yourself out of the agenda… Include yourself.”

Connect with Jamilah Lemieux:

Website: https://www.jamilahlemieux.com/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamilahlemieux/ 

Connect with Devi:

Website: https://devibrownwellbeing.com/

Substack: https://substack.com/@devibrown

Living In Wisdom Book: https://www.devibrown.com/book

Living in Wisdom Retreat: https://www.eomega.org/workshops/living-wisdom

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/devibrown/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deeplywellpod/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/devibrown?s=21&t=

Merch: https://devibrown.myshopify.com/

Threads - https://www.threads.com/@devibrown

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is an IHeart podcast. Guaranteed human.

0:09.0

Welcome to Deeply Well. This show is a soft place to land on your journey, a space where we explore what it truly means to live well from the inside out.

0:25.2

Not perfectly, but honestly. With all the complexity,

0:32.4

the paradox, the beauty, and the wonder of being human. Because in a world that is constantly pulling at us, this is the space to come back to yourself, to your body, your truth, to the practices that genuinely sustain you, the ones that work when life is actually happening.

0:47.2

This show is for the seekers, the creatives, the sensitive ones, for everyone doing the quiet, courageous work of becoming whole.

0:58.7

This is deeply well.

1:02.8

There are certain conversations that ask us to look beyond statistics, stereotypes, and social

1:09.2

narratives, and really examine the emotional realities that

1:13.5

people carry every day. Today we are talking about single motherhood, respectability, politics,

1:20.9

patriarchy, partnership, shame, survival, and the complicated emotional terrain that many women navigate while raising children

1:30.0

and trying to maintain their own sense of self. Joining me today is Jamila Lemieux. Jamila is a

1:38.9

culture critic and writer with a focus on issues of race, gender, and parenting. A leading feminist thinker,

1:47.1

social influencer, and millennial media voice. Her work has appeared in the Los Angeles Times,

1:53.5

The Nation, Essence, Playboy, The Cut, Wired, Self, Refinery 29, Vanity Fair, and many more. She was prominently featured in

2:04.5

Lifetime Surviving R. Kelly and surviving R. Kelly, too, The Reckoning, as well as A&E's Secrets

2:10.8

of Playboy. She also penned the forward for the anniversary editions of Michelle Wallace's Black

2:16.6

Macho and the Myth of the Superwoman

2:19.1

and Anne Petrie's Miss Muriel and other stories. Currently, she writes a weekly advice column

2:25.9

for the Slate's Care and Feeding, parenting section, and she resides in Los Angeles where she

2:32.5

co-parents her daughter, Naima.

2:35.0

This conversation is honest, it's nuanced, it's emotional at times, and it is deeply necessary.

2:43.3

Please welcome to the show, Jamila Lemieux.

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