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The Unmistakable Creative Podcast

Bjorn Ryan-Gorman: Coming Out as Gay in the Snowboarding World and Reclaiming Masculinity on Your Own Terms

The Unmistakable Creative Podcast

Srinivas Rao

Society & Culture

4.81K Ratings

🗓️ 14 November 2025

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Bjorn Ryan-Gorman, professional snowskater and LGBTQ+ advocate, shares his journey from hiding his sexuality behind aggressive board sports to building a life of authenticity in Portland. Growing up in Montana as a sponsored snow athlete, Ryan-Gorman used snowboarding and skateboarding as outlets for self-hatred and denial, pushing himself to dangerous extremes before hearing a podcast that changed everything. He reveals the complex reactions from family—his mom's unexpected resistance, his dad's surprising embrace, and grandparents who rejected him entirely. Ryan-Gorman explores masculine drag within the bear community, the importance of diverse LGBTQ+ representation beyond stereotypes, and the persistent question that haunts him in rural spaces: Am I safe here? This conversation challenges assumptions about what gay men look like, explores how coming out should be celebrated but not sensationalized, and offers insight into the ongoing struggle of navigating safety, identity, and belonging in America.

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0:00.0

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0:24.7

What you have to do is go to UnmistakableCreative.com slash Life Purpose. Again, that's UnmistakableCreative.com slash life purpose. I'm Sreeny Rao and this is the Unmistakable Creative Podcast, where you get a window into the stories and insights of the most innovative and creative minds who started movements, built thriving businesses, written bestselling books, and created insanely interesting art.

0:45.5

For more, check out our 500 episode archive at UnmistakableCreative.com.

0:53.2

Bjorn, welcome to the Unmistakable Creative.

0:55.0

Thanks so much for taking the time to join us.

0:56.9

Absolutely.

0:57.8

It's really, I'm really excited to be on.

1:00.3

Yeah, it is my pleasure to have you.

1:01.9

So I actually found out about your story because you wrote in.

1:05.4

And, you know, I think when I saw the words professional skateboarding, I was like, okay,

1:09.7

as a, you know, avid surfer and snowboarder and board sports junkie who will pretty much do anything that involves a board under my feet. It was like, yes, I definitely want to hear this story. But before we get into all that, I want to start by asking you, what social group were you a part of in high school? And what impact did that end up having on the choices that you've made throughout your life

1:27.6

and where you've ended up today? So the social group that I was a part of in high school was

1:33.8

I was definitely the like snowboarder kind of broie guy. Uh, I had a crew of friends, but like snowboarding

1:42.1

and skateboarding was like my whole life. Like everything,

1:46.4

like nothing else really mattered. I really like just I would like I would like I would sit

1:51.6

in class and draw up designs for like my my snowboarding extended. It's like a creative expression.

1:59.5

So it's either like it's it's like a creative expression so it's either like uh it's it's like with

2:03.2

tricks or with features and i was like really industrious and like really into building stuff so i would

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