Birth and orgasms. Yes, your birth was meant to be an orgasm. People ask, can birth really be blissful or easy or cosmic even?

Absolutely.

Nature designed the birth process for you to have the most pleasurable and spiritual experience, the greatest high of your life. But hey, don't just

take my word for it. Here are five ways that orgasms and birth come together

straight from the orgasms themselves.

Feeling reborn like Lopatimor, the orgasmic little death and rebirth.

I would happily give birth every day. It truly was the most

positive life-affirming and empowering experience of my life and it has enabled me to

feel more confident in myself as a sensual

and sexual woman since that day 32 years ago it awakened me. Using

orgasms in birth to heal. I healed more wounds, particularly sexual ones. I was

assaulted at age 16 than years of therapy and support group meandering had.

Using orgasms as a birth tool.

So many women start the flow of their labor,

even if it gets stalled out,

they'll quick run have an orgasm to help bring the labor back on because

oxytocin, which is the big hormone in orgasms, is the same major hormone in birth, and so they both lead to the same place, this massive

release.

Two pushes and he was out 15 minutes from the time we left home just one hour after

the orgasm.

Deepen your connection with your partner.

My ecstatic births opened up a depth of intimacy

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