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Big Mood, Little Mood: Dirty Work

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🗓️ 29 August 2023

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

Danny Lavery welcomes Vani Gupta, a speech language pathologist in Sydney, Australia.  Lavery and Gupta offer advice to someone who upset their husband after revealing that her former therapist and her used to flirt in therapy. Plus, an update on the letter “Clingy Sister Syndrome”, which appeared in our September 13th, 2022 episode. Need advice? Send Danny a question here. Email: mood@slate.com If you enjoy this show, please consider signing up for Slate Plus. Slate Plus members get an ad-free experience across the network and exclusive content on many shows—you’ll also be supporting the work we do here on Big Mood, Little Mood. Sign up now at Slate.com/MoodPlus to help support our work Production by Phil Surkis Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I want to say a quick hello to our listeners on Stitcher, as you may have heard, the Stitcher

0:03.9

app is going away on August 29th, but don't worry, we will still exist, and you will still

0:08.5

be able to find us. You can listen and subscribe to Big Moody Little Moody on Apple Podcasts,

0:13.2

Spotify, Amazon Music, or anywhere else you can find podcasts like on a mysterious sidewalk

0:18.4

that only appears at four in the afternoon in a certain part of town. And thanks so much for

0:22.5

being a loyal listener.

0:44.7

Hello and welcome back to the Big Moody Little Moody show. I'm your host Danny Lavery,

0:49.7

and with me in a studio this week is Bonnie Gupta, a speech-language pathologist in Sydney,

0:54.7

Australia. It's 7 a.m. where she is. I just want you to know her dedication to helping people with

1:00.0

their problems is significantly higher than mine, because if I had had to get up at 7 a.m. to help

1:05.9

people at any point throughout having this job, I would have helped no people. So there it is.

1:10.6

She has a master's in creative writing. She's now doing a research degree looking at how children

1:14.8

talk about their own experiences, finding those dogs, and books, and giving unsolicited advice,

1:19.8

which is actually going to hold you back today, because all of this advice is very much solicited.

1:24.9

But I hope it's not too limiting a factor. Thanks Danny. Well, it is going to be a change,

1:30.5

because I often don't have to give solicited advice. Well, I hope that there's not too much

1:36.0

different. I suppose the biggest difference is you can allow yourself to go on a little bit longer,

1:41.2

because you've, you know, you've got an excuse to do so. That's right. Well,

1:45.9

going along is not a problem for me either. I love to give advice. I love to repeat myself,

1:51.5

and hopefully it'll be helpful to the letter writers today. Yeah, I hope so too. I'm interested

1:57.4

in today's episode, especially because there's a fair amount of, some of them are updates.

2:03.0

One of them has a sort of significant resonance with a recent episode that I do want to mention

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