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Tara Brach

Beyond the Controlling Self - Part 1

Tara Brach

Tara Brach

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🗓️ 13 October 2022

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Beyond the Controlling Self - Part 1 - It’s natural that we do what we can to ward off danger and further ourselves. While our control strategies – such as aggression, judging, planning, seeking approval, pretending – have a developmental role, they are not a recipe for happiness, intimacy and freedom. An essential part of our evolution is to recognize when we are over-managing our lives, and learn to let go of the controls. These talks explore how we can release the grip of the over-controller, and the profound awakening of our hearts and minds that is possible in the shift from doing to being.

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0:00.0

Greetings.

0:03.8

We offer these podcasts freely and your support really makes a difference.

0:08.9

To make a donation please visit tarbrock.com.

0:30.7

Namaste friends.

0:32.0

Welcome.

0:34.0

I'm imagining that myself you have that feeling of the world speeding up, that there's just

0:41.0

more and more information, more globally impactful events, one climate catastrophe after

0:49.4

another.

0:50.9

In our personal lives, our nervous system can feel the stress of it.

0:56.2

The primary reaction when we're stressed is to try to control and manage things, to

1:02.1

try to control what's really an uncontrollable environment.

1:07.0

Of course it's natural.

1:08.8

We're trying to ward off danger that feels right around the corner.

1:15.2

Yet when we become what I call the overcontroller, we really don't like ourselves and it creates

1:22.7

distance from others.

1:24.3

It really blocks us in a deep way from living from our hearts, from a sense of wonder or

1:30.8

curiosity or really the fullness of who we are.

1:35.4

So I'd like to share with you a two-part series I did in 2019 and it feels really appropriate

1:44.3

for these times.

1:45.3

It's called Beyond the Controlling Self.

1:50.0

And I'll share personally that putting these talks together was really powerful.

1:56.2

It helped me wake up in a quite a helpful way.

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