The takeaway here, what it is I want you to consider is how strange it is and how peculiar

and sometimes justified it is that we place expectations on strangers who we, I was going to

say, we think we have a relationship. we actually do have a relationship like we have a

relationship with the you have a relationship you're listening to this show which means we have a

relationship in some ways it's a financial relationship the more listeners i get to the show

the more my sponsors are willing to pay for the advertising. It impacts the way I feel about myself.

It's very complicated.

And today, we're going to break it all down.

And I really, really want to hear your opinions on this.

So if you're not already a member of our Pod Squad, please be sure to check the links below in the show notes because that's where you'll be

able to be a part of the discussion. And of course, as always, I will be in the comments today

chatting with the Patreon community because I know y'all are going to have some opinions.

All right, let's get to it.

Welcome. All right, so let's get to a Remy Bader. Don't worry if you don't know who this is. I guarantee you've seen her. You've definitely seen some of her content. And the story is really interesting. And it's one where I think you're going to have an, I know you're going to have an opinion on this. I have an opinion on this. And apparently the rest of the internet has an opinion on this. And if you're like, I have no

idea what you're talking about, stand by. Okay, so Remy Bader. This is this gal. She's very funny.

She has a huge social media platform. She's basically a fashion influencer, but she never

planned on becoming a fashion influencer. She never planned on becoming a social media star.

Life just kind of

threw her one of those delightful curveballs. And that's kind of the cool thing about content

that's authentic. It can make somebody a star overnight. It's a cool thing and it's also a scary

thing. Because as I have said many, many times, for some people, fame becomes a

trauma. And I think that is certainly true for Remy. So she had worked a pretty cool job. She had had a job

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