Any times that you have broken relationships, whether it's with someone of the opposite sex that you're in love with, or even somebody that you have a deep friendship with that's gone south I mean they pop to mind and there's

that sting that's still there and and I don't know how to fix that other than this idea of a new creation that we're like just

this idea that we're this next version of us and I want to be the next humblest version Bob.

And that can involve saying I'm sorry to some people

that I've let down or heard along the way

and not demanding and I'm sorry from somebody else who's either let me or you down or broken our hearts,

but to just realize that they're wounded and just trying to make their way forward just like we are.

But that's probably where that compassion grows.

It's easy to do that when you've been loved well.

I think if you've been, if you've experienced,

I mean, we're all amateurs at loving each other but if you

experience somebody who's played in the major leagues and has loved you well then that's somebody oh Don

Miller he's one of the guys that is in that category for me.

He's loved me well.

And because he's loved me well, maybe some of the people I've let down relationally, I can forgive myself, maybe I can find

the courage to ask for forgiveness.

I think on our last day here on Earth, I don't know if it'll be in a bed in a field, I don't know, but on our last few moments

there's room for about eight people around you, nine if they're thin. So what I've tried to do is think who would the

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