Hey, this is Shelby Abbott.

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All right, now to today's show.

So as I've been doing this research with the guys,

nagging is essentially one of the most explicit signals

of I don't trust you.

It's I've asked you to do something

and oh, by the way, I've asked you to do something again

and again, and it's essentially this,

I am not trusting you to do it

or to care about it enough that you will get to it

when you can.

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