Best Of: I’m In a Relationship. Why Masturbate?

Sex With Emily

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

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🗓️ 20 October 2023

⏱️ 37 minutes

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We’re talking solo sex in the context of a relationship. In this Best Of episode, I’m addressing some of the most common questions I get on the subject, such as: “if I already have a partner, why masturbate?” and “if I masturbate in private, is it cheating?” We also discuss whether or not you should tell your partner if you masturbate, and touch briefly on porn addiction: starting with, is it real? Plus, I take your questions! How to set up your own “masturbation zone” when you live with a partner, whether it’s possible to have fantasy-free masturbation sessions, what to do if you can orgasm on your own but not with a partner, and much more. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why masturbation is important for your overall sexual wellness The truth about porn addiction How to incorporate toys into solo and partnered sex See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: How to Use Anal Beads Ask Emily: I Can’t Always Get Hard For Sex, Help Je Joue Amour, Duet & Vita (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	I know why people think it's not right because they feel that it's cheating.
0:08.6	You shouldn't have to masturbate without me, like you shouldn't have to on that.
0:12.3	It means that you want to be with somebody else or I'm not enough for you, right?
0:17.2	That's the refrain.
0:18.2	The people who are telling you not to masturbate feel less than and they feel that you are
0:22.6	choosing your solo sex over them.
0:26.8	It really just comes down to education and communication.
0:30.6	You're listening to Sex with Emily.
0:33.4	I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation
0:38.4	around sex.
0:40.0	How exactly does masturbation help a sexual partnership?
0:43.9	Ah, let me count the ways.
0:45.3	Well in today's episode, we're talking solo sex in the context of a relationship.
0:50.6	So I'm addressing some of the most common questions I get on the subject such as, if
0:54.3	I already have a partner, why masturbate or if I masturbate in private, is it cheating?
0:59.6	We also discussed whether or not you should tell your partner if you masturbate and touch
1:03.0	briefly on porn addiction, starting with, is it real?
1:06.0	Tell us I take your questions.
1:07.7	How to set up your own masturbation zone when you live with a partner, whether it's possible
1:11.7	to have fantasy free masturbation sessions, what to do if you can orgasm on your own but
1:16.7	not with a partner and much more.
1:18.9	Please rate your views Sex with Emily wherever you listen to the show.
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