Best of Brunch Talk: What's The Difference Between Being Picky and Not Settling?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 4 February 2024

⏱️ 30 minutes

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If you've ever been told you're being "too picky" or you have a fear of settling, this brunch talk is for you! We're re-airing one of our most popular episodes about the difference of being so particular that no one can meet your standards vs being smart to hold out for the right person. We're discussing why settling gets a bad rap, ways you may be settling without even realizing it, and how to gage against the standards that actually matter. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Our 22-Day Dating App Challenge is now open until February 7th! Get your spot now: https://www.findingyourperson.com/apps This episode is sponsored by: Recess: Get 15% off Recess Mocktails now at takearecess.com/Dateable Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 or use the code DATEABLE50 Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Ewie Schu and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:02.8	We're active daters turn dating sociologist.
0:05.4	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.0	Welcome to the dateable podcast. and
0:24.1	and dissect dish and analyze and then move on from it all.
0:27.1	Yes, get it out of our systems.
0:29.6	This is a time for tea. Especially if it's not serving us but or okay get it out of our systems or get that
0:37.6	clarity and enlightenment that we need to move on. Okay there you go that's the
0:41.6	positive spin yeah nicer way to do it.
0:44.0	But we are still recovering both of us from COVID.
0:48.0	So if we sound a little loopy, that's why.
0:50.0	But we are committed to giving the brunch talk and divulging it all even if we are
0:55.4	quarantine right now. But brunch is a time to just divulge. Let's just get it out.
1:00.3	It's like vomiting out the information or the questions or the concerns that you have and
1:06.5	hopefully you're with your friends and you guys are talking about your love lives and there's so many
1:11.4	questions circulating. I know that we've had many
1:14.6	questions circulating during our branches Julie. It's a therapy session. Yeah you can
1:19.2	vemo me anytime. I'll go to brunch with you for a small fee of $250.00. Plus brunch not included.
1:27.0	Plus I want Eggs Benedict, thanks.
1:32.0	But the reason why we talk about it with our friends Plus I watch Eggs Benedict, thanks.
1:32.5	But the reason why we talk about it with our friends is because we need to get it out of our system.
1:37.6	You can't ruminate by yourself thinking about these things.
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