I thought you had to swallow. I didn't even know you had an option out of the swallow when I was younger.

I was like, I'm going to be the eight, blowjob student. I'm going to swallow.

But it turns out, again, I've been with some partners who don't care so much if you swallow.

Or I've been to a part of recently, do you want me to swallow?

Or do you want to see it? Do you want to go other places? And he's like, I like to mix it up.

You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.

You want to give 10 out of 10 pleasure to a penis, whether you're giving or receiving oral sex to a penis, this episode is for you.

From where to start as an absolute beginner to upgrading your oral sex game, this is a comprehensive episode on the art of the blowjob.

First we'll map the penis anatomy so you know what pleasure points you're dealing with.

Next, I'll teach you techniques to build anticipation, tease, and make your oral sex that much more memorable.

Eye contact, how to use your hand, and the best loop for the job. We'll also get into sensation play, testicle and perineum stimulation, and if swallowing or deep throating is in the cards for you.

By the way, it's totally okay if not. Plus I've got tips for dealing with anxiety when you're the receiver.

Don't blow this episode off. Your oral sex mastery starts now.

Intentions with Emily for each episode I want to start off by setting an intention for the show and I encourage you to do the same.

My intention is to help you feel confident and prepared for oral sex, no magical level of experience.

When you can approach it with a few tricks in your back pocket, you'll feel more enthusiastic and as you'll hear me say often,

that's the number one quality you need to give your partner the best oral they can imagine.

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