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Then she found the help she needed.

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You know people said well Jesus said lay down your life for your friends.

You know, and Jesus modeled that. He laid down his life for his friends.

And that's absolutely correct.

Jesus laid down his life for a high and holy purpose, but not to enable bad behavior to continue.

So we must not confuse the good command to love with the unhelpful and often harmful behavior of enabling.

That's Lisa Turker's talking about boundaries in our lives on this best of 2023 episode of Focus on the Family with Jim

Daily. I'm John Fuller and before we get into the heart of the program let me

just say that we sat down with Lisa in Grand Rapids, Michigan for this conversation, and I know you're

going to really appreciate her wisdom and her thoughtful insights.

Let's pick it up now as Jim got it started. John, I'm excited to have Lisa back.

You know, there are a handful of people that do such a wonderful job communicating their

message and Lisa is one of those handful of people that do it so well with

great wisdom. She really is tapping into the hearts of all of us and the topic we

talked about last time were those boundaries in our life why we should have some a and if we don't why there will be chaos in our lives and that gap and I thought it was an excellent

discussion and if people missed it I hope you'll go to the website get it on your smartphone through the focus app

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