This is a show about individual experience and personal identity.

There may be times when folks use identifying words or phrases that don't feel right to you.

That's part of what we're exploring here.

Please listen with an open heart, and as always, I welcome your polite, engaged feedback,

and I encourage you to continue the conversation in your own life and with your own community.

Welcome to Query.

Hey, Query. I was coming here.

Christmas has come and the goose got fat and please put a hey penny.

This seems like a rude song.

Anyway, my point is this.

Thank you so much for listening today and this year because this is our first

of our annual best of episodes.

We're running one this week and one next week.

So please enjoy and hey, speaking of enjoying, join me on New Year's Eve at 6 p.m. Pacific for New Year's Steve,

the New Year's Steve Spectacular.

I am going to be hosting comics, chats, conversations, toasts with folks that you love in the Query community.

And it's a Zoom room that is free.

Come join me, hang out, and let's welcome in 2021.

I mean, I'm 36. I only started dating women when I was 32.

This is not that long ago.

But I also like when that first happened, I was like,

you know, as soon as I like, it's very funny too because this thing just happened and I'm like,

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