Best-Friends Fiancé REFUSES to allow MY FINACE to come to HER WEDDING... because she's TOO PRETTY
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🗓️ 25 February 2026
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| 0:00.0 | My fiance isn't being invited to my best friend's wedding, all because his future bride to be doesn't want people thinking that my fiance is prettier than her. |
| 0:08.3 | And now my entire friendship I feel is being torn apart, as I'm now stuck between a rock and a hard place of whether I should show up to his wedding alone, or if I should stand by my fiance and not go as well. |
| 0:19.1 | Because right now I'm so confused and I really don't know what to do. |
| 0:22.2 | Here's what happened. So my lifelong best friend is getting married later this year. And when he first |
| 0:26.8 | got engaged, he asked me to be one of the groomsmen. I obviously accepted and have been excited for the |
| 0:31.9 | wedding and to see my best friend finally get married. Now his fiance and my fiancee have always |
| 0:36.8 | gotten along really well. |
| 0:38.3 | The four of us hang out pretty frequently, always have a great time, and there has never been |
| 0:42.2 | any problems. My fiance has always considered her a friend and has been extremely happy for |
| 0:47.0 | them and excited about their wedding. His fiance has even asked my fiance for her thoughts |
| 0:51.5 | and suggestions on certain decor for the wedding, as well as the |
| 0:54.7 | venues, colors, and things like that. The official wedding invitations were sent out recently, |
| 0:59.0 | and when it arrived at our house, I noticed it was only addressed to me and also didn't say anything |
| 1:04.0 | about a plus one. Now, I was kind of surprised by this, because I had been assuming that my fiance |
| 1:09.2 | would be invited, given the fact that I've been with my fiancee for four years now, which is longer than he has been with his fiance. He has been my best friend since preschool. The four of us hang out all the time and some of my family members received invitations to the wedding. But before jumping to conclusions, I thought maybe none of the groomsmen or other friends of the bride and groom are allowed to have a plus one due to cost or things like that, since weddings are obviously expensive. |
| 1:34.2 | The other groomsmen are all friends of mine and his, so I called them to see if their significant others were also not invited. |
| 1:40.4 | Well, it turns out every single one of them received an invitation that included their significant other, and the bridesmaids all get to bring their significant others as well. So at that point, I called him to let him know that I got my invitation, but that my fiancé was not included on the invitation. And I asked if there was some kind of error or if they had forgotten to include her on it. Well, that's when he informed that his fiance doesn't want my fiance coming to the wedding, |
| 2:03.1 | because she doesn't want all the guests |
| 2:04.6 | thinking that my fiance is prettier than her. Now, I will say my fiancee is insanely gorgeous. |
| 2:10.1 | If I had a penny every time someone asked me how I managed to get her, I would be a billionaire. |
| 2:14.9 | On the other hand, his fiancee isn't the most conventionally attractive woman. |
| 2:18.4 | I feel bad saying that, and it's something I have never said out loud to anyone. But for context to the |
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