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Ben Stiller On His Parents’ Showbiz Marriage

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🗓️ 18 November 2025

⏱️ 45 minutes

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After the deaths of his parents, comedians Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara, Ben found a stash of their audio recordings. Those tapes are at the center of a new documentary, ‘Stiller & Meara: Nothing Is Lost.’ He spoke with Terry Gross about growing up in the spotlight, his father’s life-changing role on ‘Seinfeld,’ and the connection between his family life and ‘Severance.’ 
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0:00.0

This is fresh air. I'm Terry Gross. My guest, Ben Stiller, has made a very personal documentary about his

0:06.9

parents and what it was like to be their son. Ben's father, Jerry Stiller, co-starred on Seinfeld, playing

0:13.5

Frank Costanza, George's father. Ben's mother, Anne Mira, was an actress. Together, Ben's parents were

0:20.2

known as the comedy duo Stiller and Mara.

0:23.2

They were so popular in the 60s and 70s that were on the Ed Sullivan show more than 30 times.

0:29.5

Sometimes Ben went with them to their appearances on TV talk shows and in nightclubs.

0:34.9

In 2020, five years after Mira's death, Jerry Stiller died. While Ben was going

0:40.4

through his father's possessions, he was stunned to discover, stashed away, many cassette and reel-to-reel audio

0:47.2

recordings Jerry Stiller had made. They documented his life and his relationship with Anne, including

0:53.7

recordings of conversations with

0:55.7

Anne in which they had disagreements about their marriage and their act. Some of those conversations

1:01.5

are included in the documentary, along with video clips of their sketches from their TV appearances.

1:07.9

The documentary, Stiller and Mara, Nothing is Lost, is streaming on Apple TV. Ben Stiller has been

1:14.8

famous for years as an actor, starring in such films as Zoolander, Meet the Parents, Night at

1:20.5

the Museum, and their sequels, as well as Dodgeball, Tropic Thunder, and the Royal Tenenbaum.

1:26.7

In the last few years, he's been doing more and more

1:29.1

directing and producing. Now he's the executive producer and primary director of the popular

1:34.6

Emmy Award-winning Apple TV series Severance. Let's start with a clip from the new documentary,

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Stiller and Mira, Nothing is Lost.

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This is an excerpt of one of the audio recordings of Ben's parents,

1:52.0

rehearsing a sketch about how the couple they're portraying hate each other,

1:55.4

not realizing that Ben's sister, who is then a child,

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