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The Kevin Miller Podcast

Being We Without Losing Me | Randy James: Terry Real Part 3

The Kevin Miller Podcast

Kevin Miller

Nutrition, Relationships, Mental Health, Education, Social Sciences, Science, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Spirituality, Medicine, Life Sciences, How To

4.51.4K Ratings

🗓️ 15 August 2022

⏱️ 77 minutes

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Summary

Wrapping up my series on Terry Real and the message of his book, US: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship. I’m with my co-host Randy James, Medical Doctor and Functional Medicine expert and you’re about to hear a very candid discussion on this concept of being we, without losing me. Randy listened to my conversation with Terry in episode 1029 and came into the discussion with his own insights, questions, and grapplings. We hit on some big issues, like the wedding tradition of each person having a candle, lighting one candle in the middle, then blowing out their individual candle. Is that really the intended idea of marriage? And do you come into union with anyone so they “complete you” as the Jerry Maguire movie celebrated? Are you not to be complete on your own? Randy and I have been best friends for nearly a decade and partnered in multiple business endeavors and much of this US concept is relevant for our relationship, and we also bring in parenting to this US concept. I’m eager for you to hear this conversation and would be honored to hear your feedback. Self-Help(ful) is presented by Ziglar, the most trusted brand in personal and business development impacting over 250 million people worldwide. Visit Ziglar.com to see how they can inspire your true performance.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

This is a Glassbox Media Podcast.

0:12.0

Welcome to the Self-Helpful Podcast. I'm Kevin Miller. I hunt for the

0:16.8

latest and greatest authors and experts in self-help and ask them to in-depth

0:21.1

questions I'm curious about for my own growth. I bring these conversations

0:25.1

series to you so we can learn and grow and achieve together. In this

0:30.2

episode we wrap up my series with Terry Reel, our on Terry Reel and the

0:35.3

message of his book us getting past you and me to build a more loving

0:40.1

relationship. So today I'm with my co-host Randy James, medical doctor and

0:44.6

functional medicine expert and my dear friend and you're about to hear a very

0:49.0

candid conversation and discussion on this concept of being we, being us, being

0:54.7

we, without losing me, the individualized person we are as well. And Randy

0:59.7

listened to my conversation with Terry in episode 1, 0, 2, 9 and came into this

1:05.2

discussion with his own insights and questions and grappling. And we hit on

1:09.0

some big issues, even like the wedding tradition where each person you know has

1:13.6

a candle, their own candle and they light one candle in the middle and then

1:16.4

blow out their individual candles. Is that really the intended idea of

1:20.4

marriage that we no longer exist as an individual? And you come into union

1:25.8

with anyone so that they can complete you as the Jerry McGuire movie celebrated.

1:30.2

Are you not to be complete on your own and come into a relationship to enhance

1:35.6

your life? Well, Randy and I have been best friends also for nearly a decade

1:40.6

and partnered in multiple business endeavors that we felt like were marriages

1:44.4

in many ways. And much of this us concepts relevant for that relationship as

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