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The Way Out Is In

Befriending Our Habits (Episode #44)

The Way Out Is In

Plum Village

Education, Religion & Spirituality, Buddhism, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

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🗓️ 12 January 2023

⏱️ 93 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to episode 44 of The Way Out Is In: The Zen Art of Living, a podcast series mirroring Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh’s deep teachings of Buddhist philosophy: a simple yet profound methodology for dealing with our suffering, and for creating more happiness and joy in our lives. In the first podcast recording of 2023, the presenters – Zen Buddhist monk Brother Phap Huu and journalist Jo Confino – discuss habits, both the positive ones that help us lead better lives, but also those that can cause us harm and make our lives difficult. Both presenters share negative and positive habits, and the difficulties of transformation.  Can you guess the negative habit both presenters have in common? And how can we transform our negative habits and bring more positive habits into our lives? Is it possible to truly transform at the base? How important is friendship in facing our habits? Also, what is ‘shining the light’ and how can this Plum Village practice help us?  Brother Phap Huu shares on the topic of the most recent practice of shining the light during the annual Rains Retreat; rushing energy; generosity; dealing with inferiority complexes and accepting ourselves; folding clothes; mirroring each other’s transformation of habits; the interbeing of the community; and collective awakening through individuals’ positive habits. And what did Thich Nhat Hanh mean by “happiness is a habit”? Jo delves into sharing the light for lay practitioners; seeing the best in people and watering people’s positive flowers; cultivating awareness; speed, chasing deadlines, and rushing as a way of life; inherited habits; fear of humiliation; and the interbeing of complexes. And what happens when you look deeply at just one bad habit?   The episode ends with a short meditation guided by Brother Phap Huu. Co-produced by the Plum Village App:https://plumvillage.app/ And Global Optimism:https://globaloptimism.com/  With support from the Thich Nhat Hanh Foundation:https://thichnhathanhfoundation.org/  List of resources ‘Shining the Light’https://www.parallax.org/mindfulnessbell/article/shining-the-light/How to Take Care of the Habit Energy of Worrying https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jANxd6YGdAA  ‘Home Practices for the Rains Retreat’https://plumvillage.org/articles/home-practices-for-the-rains-retreat/  The Four Noble Truthshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dy-RI3FrdGA   ‘The Five Mindfulness Trainings’https://plumvillage.org/mindfulness/the-5-mindfulness-trainings/  The Seven Factors of Awakeninghttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seven_Factors_of_Awakening  Beginning Anew: Four Steps to Restoring Communicationhttps://plumvillage.org/books/beginning-anew/  The Way Out Is In: ‘Deep Reflection: The Calligraphy of Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh’https://plumvillage.org/podcast/deep-reflection-the-calligraphy-of-zen-master-thich-nhat-hanh-episode-23/  The Way Out Is In: ‘Free from Views in a Polarized Wold’ https://plumvillage.org/podcast/free-from-views-in-a-polarized-world-episode-36/ Quotes “Happiness is a habit.” “Thay always says suffering and happiness go together, so don’t be so blinded by suffering without recognizing happiness. And don’t be so confident about happiness that we forget that if we don’t take care of our happiness, suffering will come.”  “It’s a beautiful meditation to look into our habits, because you can go into the history of it and know yourself more.”  “Happiness is a habit in this particular practice; knowing the goodness in the here and now.” “When we enter the monastery for a retreat, there’s one habit that we invite everyone to practice, and it’s probably very new to someone who has never had any introduction to Buddhism or spirituality: stopping when you hear the sound of the bell. This is a habit that we have introduced to hundreds of thou

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0:00.0

Welcome back, dear listeners, to this latest episode of the podcast, The Way Out is In. I am Joe Konfino working at the intersection of personal transformation and systems evolution.

0:28.8

And I am Brother Fab Hu, a Zen Buddhist monk, a student of Zen master Tikijan in the Plum Village tradition.

0:35.8

And this is our first podcast of 2023.

0:39.8

Happy New Year, brother.

0:41.0

Happy New Year Joe and Happy New Year everyone listening into this podcast.

0:45.7

Absolutely, and today, brother, we are going to be talking about habits, because they say we are

0:50.9

creatures of habits, and some habits are positive they help us to lead better

0:56.0

lives but a lot of our habits can actually cause us harm or actually make our lives more difficult

1:01.6

so we're going to be looking at this episode of how we can

1:04.8

transform our negative habits and how we can bring more positive habits into our lives.

1:17.0

On the way out to his team. On the way out to his skin. I am Joe Confino and I am Brother Fab Hu.

1:27.0

I am Joe Confino.

1:32.0

And I am Brother Fab Who and Brother welcome back to

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2003 we are sitting in a Tignat Hans sitting still hut in Plum Village, southwest of France.

1:44.0

And it's a very calm day.

1:46.2

It's been very misty, but also very quiet.

1:49.2

So this is a good way to start the year with a sort of a moment of quiet.

1:55.0

Brother, we're here to talk about habits today.

1:59.0

And I know that for me, when you, because you just mentioned yesterday we passed each other he said let's talk about

2:05.5

habits tomorrow and and all my negative habits started coming up I started sort of think of all these things that I get stuck in and then I asked my wife and then

2:15.2

she produced this long list and I had to stop after a while because I thought, you know,

2:19.0

enough already, enough please stop. So we all have negative habits,

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