Welcome to Betrayal Trauma Recovery, BTR.org. I'm Anne. I'm sure you remember what it was like when you were searching for help, maybe for your husband, hoping to find the right program or therapist. That's why I started podcasting. I supported my husband through seven years of pornography addiction recovery and not one therapist during that time told me I was experiencing emotional

and psychological abuse and sexual coercion. I didn't want any other woman on the planet to be in

the dark. If you're like the majority of my listeners, you're experiencing the type of abuse that's

invisible and difficult to wrap your head around. Your husband is using porn or having

affairs or lying to you, and you're getting the same bad advice about how to improve communication

or your relationship. If you need support from women who totally understand, check out our daily

group session schedule at BTR.org slash group. We'd love to see you in a session today. One simple, anonymous way to help spread the word

is to click, follow, or subscribe to the Betrayal Trauma Recovery podcast on your favorite

podcasting app. While you're there, every five-star rating helps make this podcast more visible

and will help save other women from getting the wrong kind of help, like a couple

program that will make this type of abuse worse. For those of you who follow or subscribe to this

podcast, thank you so much. Your support means so much to me. So many women are looking for

Christian books on intimacy, searching for them on Amazon, And here is what you need to know before you

order any Christian books, whether free or not. As a Christian myself, and if you're not

Christian or you're agnostic or atheist, this episode has a lot of data that will be useful to you.

We're going to talk about some of the incorrect information that Christian books on intimacy

have propagated and how it's harmed women.

But women looking for Christian books to save their families, they're not dumb.

They're humble and they are reaching out for help. They're resisting this type of

abuse in any way that they can think of, but because they don't know it's abuse. They're definitely

doing the right thing trying to get help. The problem is that the books don't have any information about abuse in them.

So today I'm talking with Sheila Ray Greguire. She's best known as the blogger of to love, honor,

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