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We're going to talk today about a pretty serious subject and that is affairs

and how those affect marriage.

I'm John Fuller joined by Dr. Greg Smalley and his wife Aaron

and they lead the focus on the family marriage department.

Aaron, there are a lot of stats out there

and I'm not sure we can believe all of them,

but what's your take on how frequent infidelity occurs in marriage?

It is interesting because the research is difficult to find.

It's difficult to find reliable research that is based on statistical validation.

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