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The Story Collider

Becoming Mom: Stories about wanting to mother

The Story Collider

Story Collider, Inc.

Arts, Science, Society & Culture, Personal Journals, Performing Arts

4.4824 Ratings

🗓️ 8 May 2020

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

This week we present two stories from two women who struggled to adopt.

Part 1: Inspired by her work as a parental behavior researcher, Bianca Jones Marlin and her husband decide to become foster parents.

Part 2: Raised by white adoptive parents, Kim Evey seeks out motherhood as a way to connect with her Asian identity.

Dr. Bianca Jones Marlin is a neuroscientist and postdoctoral researcher at Columbia University in the laboratory of Nobel Laureate Dr. Richard Axel, where she investigates transgenerational epigenetic inheritance, or how traumatic experiences in parents affect the brain structure of their offspring. She holds a PhD in neuroscience from New York University, and dual bachelor degrees from St. John’s University, in biology and adolescent education. As a graduate student, her research focused on the vital bond between parent and child, and studied the use of neurochemicals, such as the “love drug” oxytocin, as a treatment to strengthen fragile and broken parent-child relationships. Dr. Marlin’s research has been featured in the Los Angeles Times, The Guardian, Scientific American, and Discover Magazine’s “100 Top Stories of 2015.” Dr. Marlin aims to utilize neurobiology and the science of learning to better inform both the scientific and educational community on how positive experiences dictate brain health, academic performance, and social well being.


Kim Evey is a Los Angeles-based actress and stand up comedian who has been writing and performing comedy for over three decades. She began her comedy career in Seattle as a founding member of the critically acclaimed long-form improv group Kings' Elephant Theater and as a guest cast member on the Emmy-winning sketch comedy show "Almost Live."

In LA, Kim has studied at The Groundlings and Improv Olympic and taught sketch comedy writing at ACME Comedy Theater. She has appeared in numerous commercials and TV shows, written for children's animation, created and starred in the Sony produced web series "Gorgeous Tiny Chicken Machine Show" and produced the trailblazing series "The Guild," a web show so successful that it was actually put on display in The Smithsonian American History Museum. She currently performs stand up at venues all over Los Angeles and her online clips have garnered over seven million views.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

A science story, huh?

0:04.0

Is NYU scientist the...

0:06.0

I felt it was right.

0:08.0

And I just thought, well...

0:10.0

It was that golden moment.

0:12.0

Because science was on my side.

0:19.0

Hey, everybody, welcome to the Story Collider, where we bring you true personal stories about science. I am your host, Erin Barker, and Liz Neely is off this week. But this week, appropriately, we are presenting stories about becoming a mother. And if you didn't remember Sunday's Mother's Day, this is your official reminder.

0:42.0

I myself did not remember until I had to record these intros that I am recording right now.

0:47.8

So, flowers are on their way.

0:50.8

I myself have never become a mother, though I have successfully raised two dogs who are more or less well-behaved.

0:58.0

I do have a mother, and she's one of the most powerful people I've ever known, so I have great respect for mothers,

1:05.0

especially those who feel such a passion for motherhood that they are willing to surmount great obstacles to get there.

1:15.8

Both of our storytellers today have unconventional paths to becoming a mother, and both of those paths, of course, involve science.

1:18.6

Our first story today is from Bianca Jones Marlin. It was recorded in May 2019 at our nine-year

1:25.1

anniversary show at Caviot in New York City. The theme that night was

1:29.7

older and wiser. I get a lot of texts for my husband. He's a psychiatrist and he works at

1:42.2

a public hospital in the city.

1:44.5

So one of my favorite ones was, today a patient told me he's an avocado.

1:52.8

But one of the ones that really stuck with me was today I changed the trajectory of a child's life forever.

2:01.0

And when I got home, he told me the full story of this patient.

2:07.4

He had a patient who was a young woman and her partner came in,

2:12.6

and she was around eight months pregnant,

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