Becoming Confident When You're Insecure with Jackie Shames
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 12 November 2024
⏱️ 68 minutes
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Summary
Jackie Shames, friend and co-host of Fill Your Cup is back to chat all things confidence, learning from past relationships, and staying true to who you are. Jackie shares her experiences dating between Miami and New York, how the seasons have been impacting her dating life, and the challenges of balancing personal and professional life. We discuss the the New York influencer scene, friendship dynamics, and podcasting, and we live-text someone Jackie went on a date with.
00:00 - 09:30Â Navigating Confidence and Dating
09:30 - 26:24Â Unexpected Encounters
26:24 - 28:54Â Reflecting on Closure and Moving On
28:54 - 29:49Â The Importance of Detachment
29:49 - 31:25Â Running Into an Ex-Fling
31:25 - 33:24Â Finding Security in a New Relationship
33:24 - 36:26Â Navigating Dating Patterns and Self-Sabotage
36:26 - 43:38Â Balancing Personalities in Relationships
43:38 - 55:53Â Influencer Culture and Personal Growth
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back to another episode of Seeing Other People. |
| 0:10.1 | Together, we're navigating modern dating alongside experts and real-life daters who are sharing |
| 0:14.9 | their stories. Don't have a date for tonight? No problem. Come learn, laugh, and maybe even |
| 0:20.3 | cry along with us as we navigate the dating |
| 0:22.3 | scene together. Hi, guys, I'm so excited. I am here back reunited with Jackie Shamas, |
| 0:28.5 | aka Life of the Shameless. I'm so excited to be here. I'm here with Berkeley. You guys can't see, |
| 0:33.6 | but it's like the best day of my life right now. I really wish Fenway was right here too. Jackie is the cutest weiner dog. I do. I'm so sad. He's not here. He was here for two weeks in New York and he loved it. And then I, you know what's interesting? I brought him back mostly because I went back for my nephew's birthday, but because I thought he wasn't going to like it. So that was my plan. and then he didn't. I was like, do I keep him here? What do I do? Maybe it's best that I take him back. I regret it. Is he a golden wiener? He's a brown, but like a mix of, or is he just a weiner dog? Oh, I didn't even know that was a thing i thought you were saying |
| 1:12.5 | like a golden as in the color no i know what he looks like oh and no he's just he's just straight dashed |
| 1:17.6 | i even know that was a thing yeah yeah he's the best i love him he on his personality is kind of a |
| 1:23.3 | mind he's just like this he cuddles barc. Oh, Berkeley. Berkeley and Fenway. |
| 1:28.3 | Oh, Berkeley just tilted his head. So cute. I'm so excited to have you back. I'm so excited to be here. So excited to catch up too. It's funny. So Jackie lives in Miami and she's here for a little bit. And she texted me being like, I'm in New York for a few weeks. Like let's grab grab coffee. Let's catch up. And I was like, let's just do that. |
| 1:44.3 | But on the pod, yeah. |
| 1:46.2 | And I was like, you know what? |
| 1:47.1 | I'll save things for the pod. |
| 1:48.6 | Yeah, because realistically, we would have been sitting at a coffee shop having this catch up. And we would have said, we should have had microphones for this. Yeah. Listen, I do that a lot with Cerna for the podcast. |
| 1:59.4 | I'm like, let's just, I'm going to tell you on the podcast because I want to hear your live reaction and kind of record that for everyone else to listen to. Yeah. No, those are the real conversations. That's literally why Carly and I ended up starting life in progress. Yeah. But speaking of the pod, a very new update for those who remember Jackie and for anyone who doesn't remember Jackie and is new to Jackie, Jackie is now, we're one year |
| 2:21.7 | into Jackie being the co-host of Fill Your Cup Podcasts. |
| 2:24.7 | I am. |
| 2:25.5 | How's that going? |
| 2:26.6 | Honestly, I love it. |
| 2:27.6 | It's so interesting because you, by the way, I'm also wearing the In Progress sweatshirt. |
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