And we can flate this idea of with doing it all, with having it all.

You know, this age old question, can women have it all?

I say yes, apps of fucking Lutley, but only if you define what it all means.

And stop changing the definition on yourself.

You can't do it all, especially not at the same time.

But you can have it all.

If you stop comparing yourself to the best versions of all aspects of your life

and keep changing that goal post.

Like we often compare ourselves, you know, our fitness regime

to this fitness blogger.

We compare our, you know, mom life to this mom that homeschools her kids

and big fresh bread for them.

But when somebody says, I'm off balance, the first thing I say is,

did you even have a definition of what balance is for you?

And it looks different for all of us at different times.

So when people are like, I'm off budget, the first thing I say is,

bitch, did you have a budget?

Like you can't just, you're putting this mind-fucking-your-head of, like,

I'm so bad, I'm so off balance.

But if you stick to what balance and what success is to you,

it wasn't, you know, constantly changing all the time.

And so you never get your brain to the other side.

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