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🗓️ 22 August 2018
⏱️ 29 minutes
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0:00.0 | When I was about seven or eight, my school teacher asked me, well, I was asking the |
0:11.6 | class what we wanted to be when we grew up, and I said I wanted to be a dad. |
0:15.8 | This is aspiring parent, CJ Camel. |
0:17.8 | I wanted to be a parent for as long as I can remember, actually. |
0:21.6 | It's the only job I've ever wanted to do. |
0:24.6 | But no one was expecting CJ to say dad, especially that teacher. |
0:29.7 | I mean, firstly, I went to a girl school so that she thought I was kidding. |
0:35.9 | She put me out of the class, but I was being deadly serious. |
0:38.2 | Like, I didn't... |
0:39.2 | There was nothing else I could think of that I wanted to be. |
0:40.8 | I just wanted to be someone's dad. |
0:42.4 | Why dad? |
0:43.4 | I'll ask myself that. |
0:46.6 | Because as a kid, I didn't know that I was trans, but I didn't... |
0:52.0 | Saying mum felt wrong, like that wasn't who I wanted to be to my kids. |
0:57.2 | I wanted to be... |
0:58.2 | I wanted them to call me dad. |
1:02.0 | When CJ was growing up in Trinidad, that image of being a father was so vivid. |
1:07.0 | I kept coming up. |
1:08.2 | Like, the time a teacher asked, I run a class to draw their future family. |
1:12.0 | It was like... |
1:14.0 | You know, typical kids' family picture, like a house in the background. |
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