Perhaps the most important mental shift completely changed my life is this.

Stop looking for answers and become the answer.

So before I unpack this, I want to give you a little context.

I, over the last 10 years, have lived in a few places. I've lived in Boston. I've lived in South

Florida. Love them both. Currently, last year, I moved to Scottsdale, Arizona, and you

follow your intuition. Sometimes you just get it right. Like, I love this place, I love the weather, I love the hiking.

And I think most importantly, the people, the community, the network, the friends I already have.

I mean, it's just a beautiful place.

Everyone's warm, welcoming.

It's very transient, right?

So it's not very clicky.

It feels like people are just accepting and always

trying to meet new folks. And it's just, it's awesome. With that, it would have found interesting

is there is a culture of like pop-up networking events. And I separated a little bit from like, you know, some groups that I'm involved in with the same people where we're meeting regularly, you know, once a month or whatever.

But there are just sort of an, there's an influx of like, there's a networking event here, everyone come, networking event here, everybody come.

And it's kind of sporadic.

There was one that happened in a conference room below where I live, right?

Same building.

I had some friends there.

So I thought, you know what?

I'll go down and some incredible people doing some incredible things.

And one of the conversations that was being had

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