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LOVERS by Shan

Becky G Opens Up About Being Sick and Sick and Tired of Hating Herself

LOVERS by Shan

Lemonada Media

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality

5.05.7K Ratings

🗓️ 15 March 2023

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

Becky G is an award-winning, chart topping, international superstar who has always been grateful for her life, but at one point, hated herself and the experience of being alive.In order to get out of that dark place and to get the clarity she needed to heal she knew she needed a superhero, but what she didn’t know is “that hero” would ultimately need to be herself. In this episode Becky G candidly shares how learning to love herself, advocate for her needs and set boundaries has opened up a world of abundance, power, and arguably most importantly, self compassion. Follow Becky Ghttps://www.instagram.com/iambeckyg/https://www.tiktok.com/@iambeckyghttps://www.youtube.com/@beckygYou can still watch old episodes of Becky’s Facebook Watch Show: Face to Face with Becky G https://www.facebook.com/watch/iambeckyg/1684197931784162/AND OF COURSE WATCH THESE INTERNETS FOR BECKY’S COACHELLA PERFORMANCES THIS APRIL!And if you came here looking for quick links to the incredible sponsors of this episode, we got you! EveryPlate http://www.everyplate.com/podcast Use Code: Lovers149Lomi: http://www.lomi.com/loversUse Code: LoversBETWatch Zatima starring Crystal Renee Hayslett and Devale Ellis by joining the millions who stream Black culture athttp://www.bet.plusFollow Shan:https://www.instagram.com/shanboodramhttps://www.tiktok.com/@shanboodyhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qngloversfriendspodcast@gmail.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

You've burned so many bridges. People hate you. And you're struggling. Like I see like you're a good person.

0:08.9

If I just remove myself from that equation, I can save myself from the pain that it's causing me.

0:16.9

The frustrations when you're nine years old and you start working, not just because, oh,

0:24.5

I love to do this and my passion and it's fun, but out of necessity and out of survival, you go

0:30.9

into a state of fight or flight. And I didn't realize that most of my life I lived in fight or flight.

0:39.2

Making that internal boundary and no longer giving them access to that

0:42.7

and knowing that there came a point in my career where I really did it.

0:48.1

And I did it myself.

0:50.3

I made it happen.

0:51.9

Like, let me have that.

0:53.5

I should have that. Let me hold on to that me have that. I should have that.

0:54.5

Let me hold on to that and embrace that and be proud of that.

0:58.7

Lovers and friends, I'm going to take you on a trip, baby.

1:03.1

I don't pretend.

1:03.9

I said, lovers and friends.

1:06.7

I'm going to hold you down down to the end.

1:09.6

Hi there, lovers and friends. My name is Shambudram. I'm a sexologist and intimacy expert with an educational background in sexology, psychology, and journalism.

1:19.2

I say that with a smile because if you're here week after week, you're like, we know. But I would assume that a lot of you are here for the first time, which is why I intend to keep the

1:27.6

intro a lot shorter than usual. But I do have to give a little bit of a backstory as to how

1:33.5

Becky G. became the guest of honor on this episode and why this episode in particular is so

1:39.8

incredibly different than anything that I've ever recorded before. So let's start with the former.

1:45.3

So Becky G was hosting a series of talks on Facebook and one of the conversations that she was

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