Self-care is everything. You're mental, you're spiritual and your physical. You can't be well living among the sick. You have to learn how to

separate yourself away from things that are not helping you but simply holding you back and

keeping you stagnant thinking you can seek happiness outside of yourself

will keep you in a world of delusion.

Happiness starts from within. There's nothing you can buy, there's nothing you can do that will feel whatever whole you feel like is there.

Happiness starts from the heart, so you first have to heal your heart so that you can truly be happy for yourself.

Learn to stop being exceptional for unexceptional people. If they can't show up for you, don't show up for them. This is all about having respect for yourself and having those boundaries in place.

Don't feel like you always have to be the good guy

just because you have history with someone or just because they're your family

members.

No, everyone should respect you,

just as much as you respect them.

And if they can't show up for you,

don't always be there to show up for them. You must never disrupt your peace of mind

for someone else's war. Every battle is not meant to be fought by you. You fight your own battles. You

be there to support others, but don't always feel like you have to insert yourself into other people's problems.

I always think louder than you speak.

Mysterious women think carefully before they speak and they always speak in a

filtered manner. They simply mind their own business and don't reveal everything

that crosses their minds.

Mysterious people in general are intriguing because their characteristics make them hard to figure out.

And we're always fascinated by people we can't figure out or most importantly, those who mind their business, do not care to perform for others.

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