Be Strict with Yourself, Tolerant with Others | Ask Daily Stoic
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🗓️ 22 January 2026
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It’s important to remember that Stoicism isn’t about judging other people. It’s not a moral philosophy you’re supposed to project and enforce onto the world. No, it’s a personal philosophy that’s designed to direct your behavior.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast, designed to help bring those four key Stoic virtues, |
| 0:07.8 | courage, discipline, justice, and wisdom into the real world. |
| 0:14.3 | Remember that Stoicism isn't about judging other people. It's not a moral philosophy |
| 0:19.9 | you're supposed to project and enforce onto the |
| 0:22.4 | world. No, it's a personal philosophy that's designed to direct your behavior. This is what Marcus |
| 0:29.0 | Aurelius meant when he said, be tolerant with others and strict with yourself. Be open to the |
| 0:34.9 | idea that people are going to be fools or jerks or unreliable or anything |
| 0:39.3 | else. Let them be. That's their business. That's not inside your control. But you have to be |
| 0:45.7 | disciplined with yourself and your reactions. If someone acts ridiculous, let them. If you're acting ridiculous, |
| 0:53.0 | catch the problem, stop it, and work on preventing it from |
| 0:56.5 | happening in the future. What you do is in your control. That is your business. Be strict about it. |
| 1:03.7 | Leave other people to themselves. You have enough to worry about. |
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