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Be Strict with Yourself, Tolerant with Others | Ask Daily Stoic

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Education, Stoicism, Stoic, Ryan Holiday, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Business, Daily Stoic, Stoic Philosophy, Philosophy, 694393

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🗓️ 22 January 2026

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

It’s important to remember that Stoicism isn’t about judging other people. It’s not a moral philosophy you’re supposed to project and enforce onto the world. No, it’s a personal philosophy that’s designed to direct your behavior.


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0:00.0

Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast, designed to help bring those four key Stoic virtues,

0:07.8

courage, discipline, justice, and wisdom into the real world.

0:14.3

Remember that Stoicism isn't about judging other people. It's not a moral philosophy

0:19.9

you're supposed to project and enforce onto the

0:22.4

world. No, it's a personal philosophy that's designed to direct your behavior. This is what Marcus

0:29.0

Aurelius meant when he said, be tolerant with others and strict with yourself. Be open to the

0:34.9

idea that people are going to be fools or jerks or unreliable or anything

0:39.3

else. Let them be. That's their business. That's not inside your control. But you have to be

0:45.7

disciplined with yourself and your reactions. If someone acts ridiculous, let them. If you're acting ridiculous,

0:53.0

catch the problem, stop it, and work on preventing it from

0:56.5

happening in the future. What you do is in your control. That is your business. Be strict about it.

1:03.7

Leave other people to themselves. You have enough to worry about.

1:21.4

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