"Be Careful who you Date"
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 15 June 2023
⏱️ 44 minutes
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Summary
On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by an anonymous woman who lives in Dallas, Texas. She opens up about meeting someone on a dating app who she gets to know over the course of a few months. We discuss how he seemed smart, mature, trusting and put together, but she ended up finding herself in a dangerous and horrifying situation, drugged and left stranded in the middle of the street with no phone and nowhere to go in the middle of the night. We discuss dating safety tips, why it's important to have these conversations, and how she took a terrifying situaiton and used it to fuel a period of growth and self-love in her life.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Hey guys, it's Alana and you're listening to seeing other people unfiltered. |
| 0:09.9 | It's Thursday, so that means real-life daters are coming on to share their real, sometimes shocking, and always unfiltered experiences. |
| 0:17.9 | Think you're alone out there? |
| 0:19.0 | Think you're the only one whose ex hooked up with your mom or whose last date ended up being a catfish? Think again. Think you're alone out there? Think you're the only one whose ex hooked up with your |
| 0:21.2 | mom or whose last date ended up being a catfish? Think again. I am anonymous. I'm 28 years old. I live in |
| 0:29.7 | Dallas, Texas. And I'm going to share a story. It was more of a dangerous situation. I was in on a date with someone who seemed |
| 0:40.7 | very, very far from anything dangerous. So looking forward to sharing. Hopefully, |
| 0:46.5 | can help some people. Yeah, I'm seriously so glad that you reached out. And the email you wrote |
| 0:51.8 | me, I was like, yes, we absolutely need to talk about this because |
| 0:55.8 | exactly, it's exactly what you said. This person didn't seem like they would be dangerous. |
| 1:01.5 | And you got yourself, not got yourself, you found yourself in a very dangerous situation. |
| 1:07.2 | And that's unfortunately a very common experience that people have in dating and with dating apps. |
| 1:15.6 | And it's not talked about nearly enough. |
| 1:17.7 | I think there's a lot of people who experience it are embarrassed or feel like they did something wrong to get them into this situation. |
| 1:25.0 | And so it's embarrassing to talk about like, that's not the case. |
| 1:28.8 | Bad things happen to good people. |
| 1:30.8 | And the more we can like spread awareness of like what to look out for and like just kind |
| 1:35.7 | of even just talking about it and having a conversation of this is a reality that this |
| 1:39.4 | could happen. |
| 1:40.2 | I think the more will all be aware of like what to do to prevent it. |
| 1:45.5 | So true. |
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