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The Female Dating Strategy

BDSM. Kink. Sex Work. Polyamory. ENDGAME: CANNIBALISM.

The Female Dating Strategy

The Female Dating Strategy

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Society & Culture:relationships, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Comedy

4.3703 Ratings

🗓️ 14 April 2021

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Summary

[*TRIGGER WARNING*- discussion of sexualized violence] We discuss FDS' controversial stances against our "sex pozzy" culture.  C'mon girls, Swirl that street meat if you're a real one.  Thanos snap. Lilith wins at Polyamory. Josh is TRASH.   00:00 - BDSM       07:45 - Pick-Me Cool Girls & the Race to the bottom       15:00 - Men who are good people & men who are into kink are mutually exclusive groups       21:22 - Erin Taylor begs civilian women for money so she can continue to voluntarily f*ck our husbands:                                              https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/post/testing-post4       30:52 - Louise Perry Article on consent: https://unherd.com/2020/11/is-casual-sex-immoral/       34:41 - CANNIBALISM! CANNIBALISM! CANNIBALISM!! https://www.instagram.com/p/CLM_P7VlO9y/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link   42:44 - POLYAMORY       59:46 - Sex Worker Fairytales    1:01:10 -  Cap Cap Cap'n - Article on https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/post/don-t-make-pinocchio-into-a-real-boy    1:03:20 - Bare Minimum Twitter    1:05:00 - Boundaries!   Follow us! Patreon: www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Website: www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: @femdatstrat Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771

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0:00.0

What's up, Queens? Welcome to the female dating strategy podcast. I'm your host, Ro.

0:10.0

And this is Willa. And this is Savannah. What's up, Queen? And today we're going to be talking

0:15.9

about the allegations that FDS is sex negative. We're going to talk about kink and BDSM and kind of discuss some of the nuances in that that I think people

0:25.6

sometimes misrepresent us about.

0:28.7

This episode is all about sex.

0:30.7

Yeah.

0:31.2

And I have to say, so we already kind of sussed out when we were talking about this before we started

0:36.8

recording.

0:37.3

Like, I guess I'm the vanilla person here.

0:40.5

Yeah.

0:41.3

I'm going to sit back and let these other queens cover this topic because I'm the only person that hasn't really ever been into BDSM.

0:48.3

So, confession time, I had a post where I roasted my past pick-me-self, and I wanted to go into a bit more detail on this episode.

0:59.7

So first of all, I used to be into like the kink, the BDSM scene.

1:05.3

You know, I used to have a FetLife account.

1:07.0

And that stuff now repulses me now that I'm an adult and I have perspective and can look back in my past experiences and realize that the kink and BDSM community is a magnet for low value and toxic men.

1:22.2

And I don't like how so much mainstream media discourse about it is about the woman's choice, oh, the woman's consent,

1:29.6

oh, what if the woman is into it? What if she likes being choked? That kind of stuff.

1:33.4

Because it almost doesn't matter to me if the woman is interested in that, if the sort of man

1:40.0

that is into it is toxic.

1:43.0

I'm concerned at how quickly it's becoming mainstream,

1:47.0

because way back when,

1:49.6

I remember when 50 Shades of Grey came out,

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