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🗓️ 21 November 2025
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Hey, hey BA fam! This week we're revisiting two intense listener questions:
Financial Infidelity: When Your Partner Invests Behind Your Back
Listener Robin's husband made an over $50,000 investment on credit cards without telling her—and lost it all. Mandi breaks down how to protect yourself: separate your finances, secure bank accounts with strong authentication, and get a family law attorney involved ASAP to understand spousal debt laws.
Workplace Sexual Harassment: When Do You Speak Up?
Our second listener is dealing with sexual harassment, an HR department that dropped the ball, and a toxic team at her financial services firm. She's ready to leave but wondering: should she put her grievances in her resignation letter? Mandi gets into documenting everything with dates and evidence, weighing career risks, and deciding if speaking up can create change for others.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed human. |
| 0:09.0 | Hey, hey, BA fam. It's Mandy here with another episode of the Brown Ambition Q&A, the BAQA. Thank you all so much for sending us your |
| 0:17.9 | questions. This is one of my favorite times of the week when I get to |
| 0:21.0 | sit down and see what's going on in y'all's lives and what kinds of questions you've got |
| 0:25.7 | today. We have some interesting ones. A couple of career questions, which is my groove. It's my |
| 0:33.4 | jam. But a kind of spicy question about someone whose husband may or may not have been |
| 0:40.3 | using credit cards to invest. Ooh, this one's painful. I'm still trying to figure out how I'm |
| 0:46.6 | going to respond to it. But listen, this is some really juicy tea, some hot pipe, pipe and hot tea |
| 0:52.5 | for your Friday. So let's get it going. All right, question number |
| 0:57.9 | one that I teased. This comes from listener Robin, who sent us an email saying, my husband does not |
| 1:05.5 | believe in savings accounts and often blows through money. I just found out that he made an over $50,000 investment |
| 1:13.8 | without consulting me. He often does this. And he lost it all. This was all done with credit cards. |
| 1:22.0 | What or where should I start to secure my financial future? Robin, every sentence it got worse. |
| 1:31.0 | First of all, doesn't believe in savings accounts. I didn't think that was a thing that we'd know. |
| 1:35.9 | I thought we could at least all agree. That's one of those things like in today's world, |
| 1:39.8 | can't we at least agree that saving is important? Like we can fight about politics and vaccinations and that. |
| 1:48.1 | But I thought we could at least agree that having more money set aside is better than not having money set aside. |
| 1:55.0 | But okay, your husband's a unique individual. |
| 1:57.9 | So first of all, doesn't believe in savings accounts. |
| 2:00.7 | Strike one. Often blows savings accounts. Strike one. |
| 2:01.7 | Often blows through money. Strike two. Lies to you, because I think not telling you is also a lie, |
| 2:09.0 | lies to you when he spent $50,000 on credit cards to invest. Like, what? I don't even, so I'm going to make an assumption here that either |
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