Awkward asexual dating and unworthy for therapy
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 26 July 2024
⏱️ 50 minutes
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00:00 Dr. Kirk's book on grief
10:24 Am I aromantic, asexual or clueless?
31:10 2017 OPP
33:51 Co-hosts 3 favorite colors
40:21 Feeling unworthy for therapy
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July 26, 2024
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| 0:00.0 | So Bob, as one author to the other, I am happy to announce that I finally carved out a couple weeks, |
| 0:10.1 | maybe more, to finish my book on grief. That's fantastic. Every day I wake up and exercise and hang out with the dogs and |
| 0:20.2 | Stacy and have a little breakfast and have my coffee on the deck it's my perfect |
| 0:28.1 | morning and then I sit down and for the next 10 hours I sit in front of the computer and think and read and write and revise and marvel at how bad |
| 0:40.6 | of a writer I am but then feel okay about several revisions. |
| 0:47.0 | And I've gone up and down with my feelings about this, you know, this project of writing this book over the past 10 years. |
| 0:56.0 | There have been times when I thought this is going to be the, great book on grief. |
| 1:05.2 | There were times when I thought this is a total piece of shit. |
| 1:07.8 | What the fuck am I even doing with myself? |
| 1:10.4 | Why do I even try? |
| 1:12.0 | I wasted all that time. You know there were several years. Well |
| 1:15.1 | There was probably a five six seven year span where I didn't even work on the thing I just kept |
| 1:20.4 | threatening to because I planned to but so many things kept getting in the way. |
| 1:27.0 | And then the pandemic hit and I was overworked and it took me four years to finally scale back to you know 50 hours a week and I finally |
| 1:40.7 | had the ability to bank a bunch of episodes so I could spend two or three weeks to |
| 1:48.4 | work more which is to write the book but you know it's easy work but but yes it's |
| 1:54.7 | going well the pace isn't too bad I'm a little tentative to predict when I |
| 2:02.3 | will be done, but I was basically writing the first chapter from scratch. |
| 2:09.0 | And it's a pretty involved chapter of talking about my own grief and trying to do so well interweaving |
| 2:20.6 | a little bit of theory and a little bit of commentary and commenting on the |
| 2:28.6 | thoughts and emotions and experiences and I learned a lot writing this chapter. I made connections that I had never |
| 2:39.7 | made before and this loss was 35 years ago or something for me. It was a long time ago and one |
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