Selena, it's high time. We talk about lies and deception. All right. I've had it with your lies. Had it with your deception. No, actually, the reason I proposed this content or this topic, what, I don't know, a month ago, was we had somebody, and I'm just going to just a little rant here. Okay. We had somebody go onto our site. Okay, so we we sell books we have these rings um fierce rings

they're silicone rings they're amazing they're my favorite silicone rings we actually be designed

them check it out go to our shop fierce marriage shop dot fierce marriage dot com so we some and we sell

these packages that you can get the rings and you can get these books and it's a big, you get a big discount, it's a bundle. And somebody, they do these chargebacks, okay? So when you're an online shop, chargebacks are like the bane of your existence because you not only, someone says that it's a fraudulent charge, which it's not, it's often not, We're not not not to cheat people, right? So they'll

go, they'll call their bank and say, I don't recognize this charge. And then that bank will just flippantly say, okay, charge back. And they'll take the money out of our account. And then they'll tack on another $25 fee to it. And then we have to prove that we made this sale. I'll try to make this short. So of course my job is when these come through I have to go and try to find like okay

was this a fraudulent thing because it's possible someone could have stolen a credit card and I'll try to make this short. So, of course, my job is when these come through, I have to go and try to find, like,

okay, was this a fraudulent thing?

Because it's possible someone could have stolen a credit card and lied and deceived that way. Or it's possible that it was a mistake. Or it's possible that somebody's just trying to pull a fast one. So anyway, I go on. I find this was a legitimate sale. this guy got on and bought two books, spent like $100.

They bought books, bought rings, bought all these packages,

and then went to his bank and said, that's an illegitimate charge. Here's the thing. If you wait 90 days after shipping the item, the post office gets rid of the archive of the shipping information. And so I had to go and pay to get the shipping information to prove that we shipped it. And so I got it. So I was irritated at this point because I had to pay like $10 to get the shipping information to prove that we made the sale that we already made. Anyway, I get on this guy's, I look up his name. I look him up on Facebook. I see, and so I'm wondering, did you just not get the package? Did he just, you know, did, did, I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt.

Yeah, mail's been going everywhere lately. It's possible that he didn't get the package. And he thought, you know what, I never got it. I didn't get the refund, so I'm going to go into a chargeback. That I can understand. But no, I get on a social media profile. I see pictures of him and his wife wearing the rings

posing in these pictures

and here's the kicker.

He's a pastor. file. I see pictures of him and his wife wearing the rings posing in these pictures. And here's the

kicker. He's a pastor. He is a pastor. And then I got thought to myself, how does someone lie like

this? Now there's a chance that maybe his wife made the purchase and he didn't recognize it.

So maybe we'll give him that benefit of the doubt. Guys, if you need something, just give us a call. Let's talk about it. Generosity is our policy, right? So if you're in need, let us know. We'll do our best to help you out. The point is, I got to thinking. What would happen if Selena or I or Carrie, who works with us? We messaged his wife and said, did you know that this happened, that this

purchase? I was feeling vindictive. What would happen if he was lying and his wife found out

that he was lying? How did that affect their trust? And so all that to say, this is what brought

up the topic of lies and deception in marriage. I apologize for the rant. Hopefully that was at least

a little bit entertaining.

We're going to get into what this actually,

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