Parish Orpins and Retrogrades. Today, Steph joins me to talk a bit about some of the categorical

dating do nots. And let me tell you this, whether you call it dating, courting, or just

human, male, female attraction, the do nots are categorical in the sense that all women like certain things and hate certain things

and all men like and hate certain things vice versa so i i think the first big point that doesn't

even require discussion it just requires enumeration us it, is that you've been lied to.

When we've been doing the process of return matchmaking, we note how uniform the answers are, the responses of men and women as they're getting paired with people.

And so we're going to give you some of our forensic feedback, surgically speaking,

no matter how much you've dated, there's no substitute for hearing from woman after woman

after woman, this is what I like, this is what I hate.

Men after man after man, this is what I hate.

Isn't it striking?

And welcome.

Yeah, we have done a show on kind of a show like on this topic a couple of weeks ago, but it really is striking.

And we've talked about this a lot when you were dating in your younger years that you thought you had a pretty

good conception of what women are typically looking for in a relationship. But since we've started

this matchmaking service, it's been really interesting how consistent some of these things are.

Like without fail. Without fail. So we're going to give you five do not dues for the men.

Five do not dues for the women as you're courting, dating, whatever you want to call it.

Now, this topic is of both general interest to folks who are single and it's also of particular interest

to those people in our matchmaking program. Some really, really eligible people have kind

of raced through their first few matches and we're like, these are some of our most eligible.

I wonder what's going on. We're going to make this a private video for the return people. And then we thought, well, for those people out there that want to be matched or find their match in general, we're just going to make it available for Parish Orphans and Rancherbys. Yeah, we were talking about this last night because part of the service, too, and we're not, I don't want to talk too much really about the matchmaking so much is like what we're finding while we're doing it. But we're talking last night. We're like part of this has been kind of counseling as well and helping young people not only meet each other, but give them tips on things that they can do while they're actually

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