I mean I certainly kind of consider myself to be the go-to person for if you really want to have

a conversation about what having kids is like, you know, and maybe want somebody to talk

you out of it, come to Diane. This is death, sex, and money.

That's probably why they invented TiVo, so people could have sex.

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot.

We both screw people for money and need to talk about more.

Why don't you have to die?

I'm Anna Sale. I first met Diane Gil Morris on the death sex and money Facebook page. We'd

posted an article about people thinking about having kids and I

and I commented we have two teenage boys with autism I love them deeply but

she wrote if someone had told me that this is what it'd be like, I never would have had kids.

We reached out to Diane in North Carolina where she lives outside Raleigh.

I just feel like it's we live in a society where especially you know now with Facebook

and everybody will post these great beautiful pictures of their kids and talk about all their great successes and how wonderful things are.

And I feel like sometimes it would benefit people to understand that you go into kids thinking that it's going to be this

wonderful amazing lifelong experience and that the reality is it may just take so much more from you

than you would have imagined.

What she imagined was very different when she first met her husband Greg. She was 18, a college

sophomore. They were both studying journalism at the University of Missouri.

And I was in love with him within three weeks.

Why?

He's just, we just click.

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