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Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

Authenticity: How to “Be Yourself”

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

Being Well

Health & Fitness, Education, Self-improvement, Mental Health

4.82.4K Ratings

🗓️ 25 September 2023

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Summary

We’re often told to “be true to ourselves:” to line-up the person we are on the outside with the person we are on the inside. In a word, to be authentic. But what does it really mean to “be who we are,” “get in touch with ourselves,” or to go full new-age “live in alignment with our higher purpose?” In this episode Dr. Rick and Forrest explore what authenticity is, where it comes from, and whether it’s actually a good thing to be more authentic. They talk about what we really mean when we use the word “authenticity,” the fragmented nature of the self, and problems with unregulated self expression. They then turn towards how we can include all of ourselves, act from our values, and become at peace with who we are.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to Being Well. I'm Forest Hanson. If you're new to the podcast, thanks

0:11.8

for listening today, and if you've listened before, welcome back.

0:16.2

Since at least the time of Aristotle, very wise people have been telling us to be true

0:21.6

to ourselves, to line up the person we are on the outside with the person we are on

0:27.3

the inside, in a word, to be authentic. And when I was initially planning for this

0:32.4

episode, I thought, perhaps a bit naively, that we'd just parrot that. Hey, here are some

0:37.7

ways that you can get more in touch with yourself and become more authentic. But what is authenticity

0:44.6

really? What does it mean to be who we are or get in touch with ourselves or to go full

0:50.8

new age here for a moment, to live an alignment with our higher purpose? Do we even have some

0:55.8

kind of a true self that we can be authentic to? Maybe being authentic is just about living

1:00.8

from our values or imagining a more fully realized and aspirational version of ourselves

1:07.0

and trying to be more that way. But if we're doing that, whose values are we choosing?

1:11.4

Where are those values coming from? And as long as we're here, is there really much

1:15.4

of a difference between feeling authentic and just feeling good about ourselves? And

1:20.2

hey, is it even a good thing to be authentic in the first place? As I prepared for this

1:26.4

episode, I learned just how deep the rabbit hole went here. So to help me find the bottom

1:32.1

of it, I'm joined today by Dr. Rick Hanson, Rick is a clinical psychologist, a best-selling

1:37.0

author, and he's my dad. So dad, thanks for doing this with me today. How are you doing?

1:41.2

I'm excited. As we go, spelunking in our cave diving. I'm going to keep my head

1:46.6

lamp on and hopefully leave a trail of breadcrumbs behind us so that we can find our way out

1:52.5

again. So during this episode, here's some things that I want to cover for people. First,

1:57.8

what do we mean by authenticity, including different ways to think about authenticity?

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