Hypervigilance is when we cross over into becoming obsessive about whatever the thing is rather than

I hope this is not happening I've done what I can to keep them safe and I'm going to do the work now I need to do not to be hypervital. Welcome to Family Life Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships

that matter most. I'm Shelby Abbott and your hosts are Dave and Ann Wilson.

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This is Family Life Today. So here's a question for you. What is one of your biggest fears when you became a parent?

I know I didn't prep you for this.'s nothing in the notes this is out of nowhere

Probably my number one is that they would not know when walk with Jesus

That's probably the biggest one at but the other one is that I would mess them up.

And that I could really mess them up

and it would be my fault.

Like that was a fear.

Did you have that?

But I did it. It was already done by the time.

Did you have that fear?

That was my biggest fear. The brokenness of my family of origin,

two alcoholic parents, divorce, abuse,

I'm gonna pass that on.

We don't think that, well, are we gonna continue that?

Yeah.

So we gotta talk to some experts about this.

Are you got excited?

I'm so giddy right now.

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