Attachments to Narcissists Create Betrayal Bonds
Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
Lisa A. Romano
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🗓️ 12 August 2022
⏱️ 11 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, Lisa A. Romano explains how it is that a narcissist relies on your faith in them, to gain an attachment in order to create betrayal bonds in relationships. Narcissists will lovebomb their targets, and mirror back your personality traits in order to create trust in them so that their targets are more easily manipulated. In time, a narcissist will cause a target to distrust their own perception, until they only trust the perception of the narcissist. If you are involved in a narcissistic relationship, you will benefit from a better understanding of how it is narcissists ease you into betrayal bonds.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:06.0 | My name is Lisa A. Romano. |
| 0:08.0 | I am a life coach, best-selling author, YouTube vlogger, meditation teacher, an expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse. |
| 0:16.0 | I am a believer in the power of an organized mind. |
| 0:20.0 | My aim is to help people learn what it means to live above the veil of consciousness, rather |
| 0:25.8 | than living a reactive life. |
| 0:28.3 | May your heart feel blessed, your mind feel expanded, and your spirit find hope as you |
| 0:33.5 | spend time with me here at the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:39.0 | So today, we're going to be talking about how attachments lead to betrayal bonds. |
| 0:45.2 | So when we're talking about narcissistic relationships or relationships with malevolent |
| 0:51.1 | others, relationships with people who are deliberately manipulative, |
| 0:57.5 | people who lie, people who are willing to use a sense of exploitation, who feel entitled |
| 1:07.2 | to exploit the emotions of others. |
| 1:09.7 | We're talking about what happens when we bump into people |
| 1:13.4 | like this who sweep us off our feet and who over time get us to distrust the self. There's a big |
| 1:21.7 | misconception out there that those of us who are in relationships with narcissists are weak. |
| 1:30.3 | There's something wrong with us. We are defective in some way. We miss the signals. We miss the red flags. |
| 1:37.3 | And that's just not the case. And I get it as someone who is a recovering codependent, |
| 1:45.3 | my recovery is everything to me. |
| 1:47.6 | But in my particular case, I acknowledge that there was childhood emotional neglect, |
| 1:54.0 | there was mental abuse, there was exploitation, there were boundaries that were crossed, |
| 2:00.5 | there was abandonment, and at times, there was even |
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