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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Attachment Styles: With Krispin Mayfield

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 5 July 2022

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Welcome back to the Love & Relationship Podcast, a hotline style show where we tackle all your questions about love, relationships, and mental and emotional health — with short, bite-sized, practical answers. Today on the podcast we’re talking all about attachment styles — how they impact your relationship with others, as well as your relationship with God. I’m joined by Licensed Counselor and author Krispin Mayfield who just wrote a book all about Attachment. The way you handle your emotions, interact with others, and your ability to connect all comes down to something called your attachment style, that was shaped in early childhood. It’s a really important concept to understand if you’re hoping to pursue healthy relationships. I think this episode is going to open your eyes to how you view your relationships with others, as well as your relationship to God.  So tune in to today’s episode and let me know on Instagram what you thought of the conversation! __________ It’s time for YOU to get real about how you’re doing. Grab a copy of Are You Really OK? for yourself, and let’s do the work of getting healthy from the inside out. FOLLOW MY PODCAST AND LISTEN ON Apple PODCASTS BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY –  iHEART RADIO The Debra Fileta Counselors Network is officially open!! Book a session with one of our counselors TODAY and get started on your healing journey from the inside-out! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season, and Are You Really OK? and Married Sex. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her today! Want to be on the Love + Relationships Podcast?  Go to truelovedates.com/loveandrelationships/ to submit your question and learn more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey everyone. Welcome back to the Love and Relationships podcast, a hotline-style show where people call in with all of their questions about love, sex, dating, singleness, marriage, and mental and emotional health.

0:31.1

I'm your host, Deborah Felita.

0:32.9

And I'm so glad you're tuning into these candid, unscripted conversations where I answer your questions

0:38.7

in short, bite-sized, practical answers.

0:42.1

For those of you who don't know me, I'm a licensed professional counselor, relationship expert, and author of five books.

0:48.5

I also run the popular relationship advice blog, TrueLovedates.com, reaching millions of people with the message that

0:55.6

healthy people make healthy relationships. If you have a question that you want me to answer on the show,

1:02.2

send it by voice memo to Deborah at Truelovedates.com or submit it on my podcast page,

1:08.4

truveladates.com slash love and relationships. And I'll do my best to get it

1:14.1

answered on one of the episodes. Let's dig in to today's topic. Today's question comes from

1:23.0

Marie from Florida. Hey, Deborah, I've heard you talk before about attachment styles. Can you

1:29.2

unpack what attachment styles are and how they impact our relationship with others, as well as

1:35.4

our relationship with God? Friends, it's so good to be with you again today, and specifically

1:43.7

for this really interesting question,

1:46.3

I know a lot of you have heard me talk about the word attachment, the concept of attachment and how it

1:52.2

plays out in our relationships. And as a therapist, I think this is one of the key things that we

1:59.4

want to teach clients is what does it look like to

2:02.0

understand your attachment style? Because it impacts how you view and how you interact with the

2:08.8

people around you. And I have just been reading a book that my publisher sent to me

2:14.6

called Attached to God by Crispin Mayfield. And so I thought Crispin

2:19.1

would be the perfect guest for today to unpack a little bit about what attachment is and how it

2:25.2

plays out in our lives. So Crispin, it is so good to have you today helping me unpack this.

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