Attachment and Relationships, Part Three

The Allender Center Podcast

The Allender Center

Psychology, Religion & Spirituality, Mental Health, Christianity, Trauma, Health & Fitness, Theology

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🗓️ 28 February 2020

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Rachael and Dan continue a series about attachment; how our earliest relationships impact who we come to be. Throughout their conversation, you’ll hear attributes of secure attachment, how our brains are wired for attachment, and the three categories of insecure attachment and how they affect our styles of relating.

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0:00.0	Thank you for listening to the Allender Center podcast.
0:06.7	I'm Dr. Dan Allender.
0:08.7	And I'm Rachel Clinton-Centen.
0:10.5	We're fiercely committed to providing hope and healing to a fragmented world.
0:14.7	And restoration for the heart.
0:17.2	Thank you for joining us.
0:18.5	Let's get this conversation started.
0:29.5	Thank you for joining us. Let's get this conversation started. Well, Dan, the past few weeks we've been talking a little bit about how our style of relating
0:37.2	reveals who we are, how we've come to be
0:41.5	who we are, who we can become, gives us a framework for something of our impact in the world
0:49.0	and those around us. And then last week we were talking about attachment as the soil for really shaping our style of relating.
0:59.6	And I know we talked about this time we want to spend more time kind of leaning into how do we see this playing out in our friendships and relationships.
1:10.1	And really, I think the question of like, and what hope is there for us in the midst of
1:15.6	growing awareness around how our earliest attachments have impacted how we relate to the world
1:23.4	around us and to people around us?
1:25.7	And what does that mean?
1:27.0	In some ways, the question I'm always asking as a pastor, how then shall we live?
1:32.3	Like, what does this mean for us?
1:35.5	Well, Rachel, we would not be addressing anything with regard to anything if we were not
1:42.6	radically hopeful people, even if you and I both suffer
1:47.1	with a lot of our own struggle with hope, we actually believe that this is a fun, wild, glorious
1:55.6	potential for goodness and change. Absolutely. But let's also say that where I know I see this being played out,
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