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Is there any life event that's more expensive, confusing, and stressful than a divorce?

You're not only dividing your family, you're also figuring out the disposition of a lot of assets,

portfolios, real estate, trusts, businesses, more.

I'm Barry Rittalts, and on today's edition of At the Money, we're going to discuss the

finances of divorce.

And full disclosure, I am and remain happily married for 32 years to help us unpack all

of this and what it means for your portfolio, let's bring

in Patrick Kilbane of the RIA Oman Wealth Partners and also leads the divorce advisory group.

So Patrick, let's start with the basics. You focus on people going through divorce. What's the first financial

triage you do when a new client calls? Barry, great to be with you. Thank you for having me.

When somebody gets hit with this bomb, when this bomb is dropped on them, you know, I'm a big fan

of Coach Lou Holtz, and he has an acronym win. It stands for what's

important now. So I generally talk to the person who this might be their first exposure with

the legal system, and I figure out what their goal is. Has there a strange spouse cut them off

from the cash flow, from the assets, is this a child custody situation?

What is the first thing that we need to handle?

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