Aszul & the Triangulating Temper Tantrum Narcissist - Narcissistic Abuse, Infidelity, Codependency.

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

Relationships, Education, True Crime, Society & Culture, Self-improvement

4.7 • 792 Ratings

🗓️ 3 January 2022

⏱️ 106 minutes

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Brandon talks with Aszul about her toxic relationship with a rage filled narcissist. It's a story of triangulation, open relationships, creating problems that don't exist, and caretaking. Plus they discuss, gaslighting, patterns of abuse, hypocrisy, invalidation, projection, hoovering, bonding over trauma, mind reading, victim playing, boundaries, control, and much more. Thank you to our sponsor BOMBAS. Go to Bombas.com/nap and get 20% off your purchase of socks, underwear, and t-shirts. Bombas donates an item to a homeless shelter for every item purchased. They are a wonderful company. We love Bombas. Thank you to our sponsor HELLOFRESH. Go to HelloFresh.com/nap14 and use code nap14 for up to 14 free meals AND 3 free gifts! Enjoy America's #1 Meal Kit today! Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Thank you to our sponsor Tru Niagen. Tru Niagen is a supplement that's clinically proven to boost N-A-D levels, an essential coenzyme required for cellular energy and repair. Add more vitality to your life today, with Tru Niagen. Right now, new customers can save 10% on their first purchase by going to https://TruNiagen.com/nap and use code nap. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Azul, and Azul was in a toxic relationship with a rage-filled narcissist. It's a story of triangulation, open relationships, creating problems that don't exist, caretaking. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
0:43.3	I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, I have Azul.
0:49.7	How are you?
0:51.6	I'm doing good.
0:53.7	Well, I want to thank you today for being here.
0:58.7	You were dealing with a triangulating narcissist, and it was with someone who was a serial
1:07.8	cheater.
1:09.4	Infidelity is a big part of this story.
1:13.1	And this person, you know, kind of coerced you into a lifestyle that was not for you.
1:20.5	And today you're going to, you know, really tell us a story of your abuse.
1:23.9	And I'm sorry that you are here to tell your story.
1:27.0	But you're going to help a lot
1:28.0	of people in the process. So thank you for being here. And now, without further ado, Azul,
1:35.2	the floor is now yours. Thank you. I'm excited to be here. The show has been very helpful to me. I'm not excited for the reason I'm here, but I'm excited to share my experience and hopefully understand myself and my, I guess, my behavior here a little bit more and also maybe help someone
2:01.9	else in the process because listening to other people's stories, stories have been really
2:07.5	helpful for me. So I'm going to really quickly just mention that I come from a very traditional
2:15.4	Mexican family or Mexican American family.
2:19.3	My parents were immigrants, very hardworking people, probably not the most loving
2:25.9	and expressive parents.
2:28.8	And I never really saw my parents apologize to each other or to us kids.
2:34.2	Work and work ethic was the main thing is how are you going to provide?
2:38.2	How are you going to support the family structure?
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