Hello and welcome to another episode of iWay with Jemila Jamil of Howcast again,

Shame. I hope you're well. I am hanging on by fucking thread because of what is going on in the

world right now and so I thought I'd just take a step back and a step out and talk about our

hearts and our mind for a little moment. I know a lot of you have been asking for me to bring back

Shadine Francis, the excellent love and relationship and sex therapist onto our show because she's been

so magnificently helpful before and a lot of you have a lot of questions, it feels like more questions

than ever but more post-pandemic and maybe that means you have been doing some self-investigating

or some good reading or you've been exposed to some things online that have made you reconsider

things and so I was thrilled to be able to ask her back and she was very kind to come on and give

me her time and I put out to you a call for questions and you almost broke my Instagram and I really

thank you because these questions were brilliant and they were so insightful and I always try to

remind you of this. A lot of the questions however unique you may find them and I mean this is in a

good way not in a your questions are basic. They are repeated again and again and again a lot of

you have the same questions and I say that so that you know that you are so so so not alone even

in the most specific of circumstances it's fascinating to be here to sift through all your letters

and messages and see how many of you feel alone whilst going through the same situation as countless

other people and so we go all over the place I really kind of like I hit her with everything like

I was making really milking the most of her time and her wisdom and so jumping all over the place

to reach as many of your questions as was possible within an hour and a bit but in this we discuss

the fears many people have about not having enough sex and why scheduling sex is important

go with her on this we discuss struggling with feeling comfortable and sexy in your own body

after having a baby we discuss how to manage a partner who jokes about sex to avoid rejection

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