We have to be really honest with ourselves. Are we going on our Facebook wall and are we shaming other people who believe different things than us?

And are we trying to get them to conform to our way of being.

Hey Jason, got us here.

Hey Jason Gadis here.

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All right, in this episode, I am talking to myself and you, many people that join me live for this conversation on social and the main conversation is about this

DM I got on Instagram and I think I'm still talking about it because it's so valuable. Some people like, why are we still talking about this?

Because we all ask other people to change and it's a very slippery slope and being on the receiving

end of being asked to change just notice what comes up for you. Okay, as you listen to this. And I don't recommend this

approach to getting what you want relationally. This is definitely what not to do.

But I think there's some gems in here in this conversation.

There's some good questions at the end.

Okay, enjoy.

What's up people? What's up people?

Say I'm going to talk about when people ask you to change.

When people ask you to change. Now you might sit here and think, do I ask other

people to change? Do I do that? And let's just imagine for a minute that we all ask other people to change,

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