Ask Unladylike: Married Last Name Change?
Unladylike
Unladylike Media
4.8 • 3.7K Ratings
🗓️ 17 October 2023
⏱️ 38 minutes
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Summary
To change or not to change? That is the married-last-name question that actor, host and proud hyphenate Ashley Blaine Featherson-Jenkins (Dear White People, Trials to Triumphs) loves to answer. In this latest Ask Unladylike installment, Ashley and Cristen advise a listener in construction who's weary of being the "trophy worker" and an affianced unlady who worries whether taking her husband's last name is giving away part of her identity and/or caving to patriarchy.
But first, they bond over Bug Juice, aka the greatest reality show for tweens ever!!
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| 0:00.0 | This is Unladylike, I'm Kristen and it is time for another |
| 0:29.9 | installment of Ask Unladylike, where we answer listeners questions that chat |
| 0:35.4 | GPT could never. And fittingly for a show where we'll be reading listeners |
| 0:40.4 | emails, I have today with me, with us, one of the stars of dear white people. Got it? |
| 0:49.9 | Listening letters? Dear white people. My name is Ashley Blaine Featherson Jenkins. I am an artist, |
| 1:02.5 | I am an actor, I'm a podcast host, I'm a creator, I'm a producer, and I do all of those things |
| 1:11.2 | because I want to inspire. I feel that my purpose why I'm here is to inspire is to bring hope |
| 1:18.4 | to anyone that I'm able to touch, and that's my way of changing the world. |
| 1:27.2 | So tell me about trials to triumphs and why you wanted to start the podcast? |
| 1:33.4 | Yeah, I mean, for exactly the reason I said, trials to triumphs is I created the podcast |
| 1:39.6 | that I wanted. I wanted a place where I could go and hear the real stories from people about |
| 1:45.7 | how they got to where they are. I think we're celebrating people's highlight reels. We're not |
| 1:52.3 | thinking about all the the the trials that came before the triumphs, really. And to me, it's |
| 1:58.9 | the trials where the lessons are. That's where like the real strengthening conditioning happens. |
| 2:04.3 | That's where the miracles happen. And I know when people have shared those stories with me, |
| 2:12.0 | I'm always changed. And so I wanted to bring that to an audience so that it could hopefully |
| 2:18.5 | change their lives too. And it's been the biggest blessing. I have so much fun. I leave every |
| 2:26.0 | episode so inspired. And also the guests that come onto the show, something about it is always so |
| 2:34.0 | incredibly cathartic for them and healing. And I end each and every episode asking my guest |
| 2:42.3 | what their takeaway is. And I share mine too, but it's always so beautiful. People are talking about |
| 2:47.2 | their stories, right? It's their lives yet they still are able to always find to take away. |
| 2:54.0 | Whether it's from their lives, our interaction, maybe sometimes even something that I've said, |
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