Ask Unladylike: How to Stay Married
Unladylike
Unladylike Media
4.8 • 3.7K Ratings
🗓️ 8 February 2022
⏱️ 54 minutes
🧾️ Download transcript
Summary
Staying together forever can feel like an impossible slog — just Ask Polly, aka advice columnist Heather Havrilesky. She helps us troubleshoot marital regret, absent sex drives and self-preservation and discusses her new memoir, Foreverland: On the Divine Tedium of Marriage.
Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space is available now, wherever books and audiobooks are sold. Signed copies are available at podswag.com/unladylike.
Follow Unladylike on social @unladylikemedia. Subscribe to our newsletter at unladylike.co/newsletter.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Transcript
Click on a timestamp to play from that location
| 0:00.0 | There's something so romantic about winter and I don't know whether that's just because |
| 0:05.4 | I'm a bit of a homebody and I love a 5th. |
| 0:08.0 | But I think it's just the holiday period, it's just for me, it's the most romantic period. |
| 0:14.2 | And I think anyone who's listened to my records will know that I'm quite a big fan of romance. |
| 0:18.8 | Joy in every sip with red carp snout back at Starbucks. |
| 0:27.2 | This episode is brought to you by Slack. |
| 0:29.9 | With Slack, you can bring all your people and tools together in one place. |
| 0:34.0 | It's your digital HQ where you can increase productivity, enable flexibility and automate |
| 0:39.0 | workflows. |
| 0:40.0 | Plus, Slack is full of game-changing features like huddles for quick check-ins or Slack Connect, |
| 0:45.6 | which helps you connect with partners inside and outside of your company. |
| 0:49.8 | Slack. |
| 0:50.8 | Where the future works. |
| 0:52.4 | It started at slack.com slash DHQ. |
| 1:00.3 | There are ways that marriage isn't constructed exactly in its most traditional sense to accommodate |
| 1:06.6 | a full person. |
| 1:07.8 | So you have to have this kind of reckoning where you and you're supposed to talk about how |
| 1:15.2 | are we going to make sure that we can each realize our dreams and feel like full human |
| 1:23.6 | beings in the world and not just like an appendage attached to somebody else? |
| 1:27.4 | Hey y'all and welcome to Unladylike. |
| 1:47.0 | I'm Caroline. |
| 1:48.0 | I'm Kristen and we are back with another installment of Ask Unladylike where we reach into our |
... |
Please login to see the full transcript.
Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Unladylike Media, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.
Generated transcripts are the property of Unladylike Media and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.
Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.