Hi friends and welcome to the papaya podcast.

I'm your hostess, Try and Hermostus, Sarah Nicole.

And each week I'm going to be dishing out some sweetness mixed in with some seeds of wisdom or something like that.

So get ready to get inspired, get candid, get real, because we are all in this digital

space together. All right, everyone, welcome back and this is our brand new segment. Ask the

neighbors. We did maybe sort of not fully clarify what that meant when we first told

people to write in to ask questions of advice because the series is called Ask the Neighbors

because we are neighbors, Becky and I. But I feel like people accidentally thought we were asking

if they needed any advice on neighborhood drama or issues.

Which I'm down for.

True, but I am not an HOA and I cannot solve all these problems.

Yeah, we realize we were getting a lot of questions about solving neighborhood drama, which we will touch on some of them.

I don't know about zoning offenses.

Okay? I'm sorry.

So essentially what we're hoping for is that people will just

write in with their weird little questions, their family debates, they're, we've done this

before. Like we've done the polls before, but it's a little bit longer form. Or you can confess

something really wild and we get to unpack it with you. And it's totally anonymous. Unless you're like, please drop my handle. I want a following off of my crazy story. I want juicy stories. Yeah, I want juicy stories. And then actually as we go through all these, there's going to be a post on the papaya podcast every time we put when he's out, right? Yeah. Yeah, I want everyone else's opinions too.

So like follow along with us and then go to the post and write your opinion because I want to know it. And I want you all to agree with me and not Sarah. I just want to be right. But sometimes this is going to be a peer discussion. Like are we, are you ready to just get into it? Because I got a really interesting one that I genuinely don't know what to say.

Okay, let's go. All right. This woman writes in and says, I have a 16-year-old daughter who met a boy from Miami in an online game. They've never met in person. She feels she's in love with him. He is her best friend and she tells him everything.

And most recently, she told me that they want to meet. She wants me to approve of the relationship

and frequently gets upset at me for expressing my concerns. So here's her list of concerns.

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