Ask Shaykh YQ #93 - Should a Wife Change Her Last Name back to Her Family Name
Yasir Qadhi
Muslim Central
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🗓️ 1 October 2020
⏱️ 4 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | This audio is brought to you by Muslim Central.com. |
| 0:04.0 | Sister Sahish emails from Pakistan |
| 0:08.0 | and she says that she got married a long time ago, 20 years ago or something and she took her husband's |
| 0:14.6 | last name and now she is being told that this goes against the Quran so should |
| 0:19.7 | he she legally change her name back to what it was before she got married. K I'll Larijalan no he I'll a him fasalu |
| 0:38.0 | a la l'a dikriin |
| 0:41.0 | kuntum la ta'lata. This is a simple response. |
| 0:48.8 | This is a simple response. |
| 0:50.8 | Allah says in the Quran, |
| 0:52.0 | udulham le Abba'i, who actsh Mle AIMU, Aksa, |
| 0:54.0 | in the law, called them by their fathers, that is the justice in the eyes of Allah Shipphana |
| 0:58.6 | with al-Aala. |
| 0:59.6 | And this verse has been misinterpreted by some in our modern times to say that this applies to |
| 1:05.6 | women changing their last names but this is not the case. The Western concept |
| 1:10.6 | of a woman changing her last name and this is coming from the west it never |
| 1:14.4 | existed in the east this is a complete European construct where if a lady would |
| 1:18.8 | marry a man she would change her last name to indicate that she is now basically owned by the man or she belongs to the man |
| 1:27.2 | Even in Western culture it was never meant to indicate that she is no longer the daughter of her own father. |
| 1:35.8 | You see, the Western function of the last name is not the same as the Quranic verse |
| 1:41.0 | Uduhumli Abba'i. The Quranic verse Udohum Li Abahim. |
| 1:43.1 | The Quranic verse Uduhahm-I mean call them by their fathers. |
| 1:46.8 | It means make sure that the child is said so and so and so is the son of so and so and so, so and so is the daughter of so and so and so. |
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