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Sister Zaneb asks a question, I will summarize it, that she wants to marry a particular brother.

They met on campus.

They have feelings for each other, but they haven't done anything. particular brother they met on campus.

They have feelings for each other,

but they haven't done anything wrong.

They're keeping themselves pure for marriage.

But as is usually the case, the father is objecting anding and saying no he's not going to allow

this particular person to marry his daughter and she is feeling that his objections

are unreasonable and so does she need, she's adult, she's legally the land that she lives in in London,

she can marry this brother legally in terms of the British law and so she is saying that if she is

certain that his conditions are unreasonable

may she go ahead with this marriage. A rusal namin kibnika I'll

ri jalan no he

I lah i him

fas alu al al-a-lah dikirim the response that brothers and sisters understand that the Sharia has

placed a wally for a very simple reason and that is to protect the interests of the lady.

And I understand that some people think this is paternalistic, some people think this is

misogynistic, some people think whatever, but at the end of the day the

Sharia is very clear on this point and this is the position of the vast majority of

rudama and frankly it is basic human psychology that a young lady who has never experienced men, never experienced any marriage, any long-term

relationship with another man can be taken advantage of because not because she's naive it's because she is innocent

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