Ask G Q&A: Trust the Ick, Mixed Signals & Men Who Waste Your Time
Don't Be A Dick with Gretchen Clark
Gretchen Clark
5.0 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 4 May 2026
⏱️ 31 minutes
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Summary
This week on DBAD… it’s chaos, it’s advice, it’s “what the hell is wrong with men?” energy.
We’re kicking things off with Bear updates (because obviously he’s perfect and we’re obsessed), but then we spiral, in the best way, into everything from toxic relationships to internet drama to real-life “am I the dick?” dilemmas.
We’re talking:
-Love bombers and emotionally unhinged men (yes, we’re naming names… kinda)
-Why women still feel the need to shrink themselves in dating
-The reality of modern friendships, weddings, and spending money you don’t even have
-The biggest red flags you’re probably ignoring (but shouldn’t)
-And the one thing you absolutely do when a married man slides into your DMs
It’s unfiltered, it’s honest, it’s slightly unhinged, and it might just save you from making a very expensive or very emotional mistake.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re overthinking… you’re not.
If you’ve ever gotten the ick… trust it.
And if he’s acting weird? He probably is.
Let’s get into it.
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| 0:00.0 | This is a genuine question. |
| 0:01.0 | Why would you ever think that you would have to tell him? |
| 0:03.4 | If it's clear that it's casual, |
| 0:04.9 | that motherfucker is definitely dipping his dick in someone else, respectfully. |
| 0:08.0 | Or he's trying to at least. |
| 0:09.5 | Tell me why Mike from work was sending heart emojis and miss you. |
| 0:16.6 | I would also have a huge ick, and I don't know if it would be reversible. |
| 0:20.3 | Let me just tell you this |
| 0:21.0 | little story. |
| 0:24.2 | D-bad baby. That stands for don't be a dick if you're new here. And we're not sugar-coating |
| 0:28.4 | shit. So let's get into it, shall we? |
| 0:36.0 | Hi, my gals. Did anyone else's parents used to suck on the Wurthers, caramel, I don't, butterscotch, I don't know, candies, I cannot stop eating them. I got them on a road trip when I went to Hilton Head this past weekend. I haven't had them in like five years. And I was like, these are so wildly delicious. So if you hear me clinking on it and sucking on it, I hope that that's not |
| 0:54.4 | that annoying. I'm covered in dog fur, but one thing that we found so surprising about bear |
| 0:58.6 | is that he really does not shed like that badly. For a pure red, yellow lab, I was expecting |
| 1:05.7 | him to be like very furry and usually labs have two coats. When you have one of them, it's like |
| 1:10.3 | having two dogs. So when it multiplies very quickly, but he really doesn't. When you have one of them, it's like having two dogs. |
| 1:11.2 | So when it multiplies very quickly, but he really doesn't. It's so sweet. He just got a bath today. He smells so good. He has on his bandana. I would let him in here, but he would like, if I get one more fucking spam call. Like, leave me alone. I've been getting a lot of spam calls from like LinkedIn too. I'm like, I don't want your motherfucking job. |
| 1:28.6 | So many of you guys have been asking for updates on bear and thank you. me alone. I've been getting a lot of spam calls from like LinkedIn too. I'm like, I don't want |
| 1:27.7 | your motherfucking job. So many of you guys have been asking for updates on bear and thank you. |
| 1:31.7 | I love you for loving him as much as we do. He has just really meshed into our family so |
| 1:39.7 | seamlessly and so well. We are so proud of him for a dog that was clearly someone's part of a family. |
| 1:46.5 | They had a young kid, which I don't know how on earth, not to be judgmental, but how do you |
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